Left out from a party.. should my friend go- is this fair?

Question

Basically I introduced my friend Katy to my other friend Sharon.

Sharon introduced Katy and Me to this boy Ben.

NOW Katy AND sharon are going to Bens party.

Ben hates me so hasn't invited me.

Should Katy go? I mean, she wouldn't even know Ben if it wasn't for me. She's like my best mate. I feel so left out. I introduced everyone!

Answer 1

yes just let them go

Answer 2

yes b/c cause he invited her  

Answer 3

Say nothing to anyone. Of course, Katy and Sharon should go to the party if they are invited. The bigger deal you make of this, the more you will be left out. Just busy yourself doing something else if you aren't invited to the party. No tears, no begging them not to go without you and no calling Ben wondering why you weren't invited. It could be an oversight. In that case, Ben will be apologizing for leaving you out. Then you can tell him with a smile that it was no problem. Go clean your room, rearrange the furniture, repaint the room. Do something constructive with the time you would have been at the party. And do it with a smile. You will be glad you did.