Les Dreams. I Need Help??????????

Question

ok. I have a BF who i love to bits. but i keep on having the most entensed les dreams where i wake up having a orgasim. and i'll walk past a hot girl on the street and fantasise about ******* her brains out. but i have been with a few girls before but dont seemed to really get to turned on. what going on??

Plus when i m********e i always fantsise about chicks.

Answer 1

It's natural to dream about sexual things with the same s*x, just as it is for the opposite s*x (for those who are heterosexual). It is possible that either a) you are just experiencing that, or b) your subconcious is trying to tell you that you are either bisexual or L*****n. Perhaps you "don't really seem to get turned on" by females because of a mental block. If you fantasize about women when you m********e, then you know it's possible to be sexually aroused by a female. But it's also a possibility that you're just one of those people that fantasize about things like that, even though you're straight.

If I were you, I'd do some intrapersonal reflecting.

Answer 2

The dreams and your fantasies suggests you are having some conflicts over  your sexuality.  You say you have a boyfriend but that other females are who sexually excite you.  You even m********e to other females than your boyfriend or other males.  I would wonder how serious your current relationship is.  You do not mention if you are sexually attracted to you boyfriend.  You also do not state your age which would make some difference.  

If you are young I would just not worry too much about things and let them happen.  If you are older then you might want to reevaluate your relationship with you boyfriend and see if there is something you are missing and if there are sexual issues between the two of you.