Let go and let God?

Question

Would it be wise to entirely seperate from my two year old son's mom who cheated seven months ago, and who is constantly justifying herself of having done so because "that I wasn't there for her emotionally during her last two month's of pregnacy" and who continues to be with that individual even today. Plus, also allowing him to spend the night at times?

Answer 1

I don't think that it's healthy for anyone involved to allow this situation to carry on. Your son is probably confused. Her justifications for her behavior are excuses and if she continues to be with the guy, then she's truly not remorseful for what she has done. Move on with your life, for you own emotional health.

Answer 2

If you are unhappy in your relationship and your wife is disrespecting you that much it sounds like it's time to end it.  Your son is still young and it will be easier on him if the inevitable end comes before he can fully understand what is going on.  You can still be a father to him without being a husband to her.

Answer 3

Yes! Yes! Yes!! If she continues to see this other man, she obviously doesn't care about your relationship. You owe it to yourself to find someone who loves you enough to never do that to you. Make sure you start making arrangements immediately to see your son. Good luck!!