Kind of a long one folks..I've been dating this lady for a few weeks.We've gone on a total of 3 dates,one movie,dinner,casual lunch.So a friend of mine was throwing a bbq at 'her' house.So the lady I am dating went with.Now this caused a huge issue and has put a wedge between us.Let me explain.
The friend who had the bbq is a good friend of mine.I do not have many close friends but she is like a little brother to me,helps me with my computer,even got my mp3 player loaded with my cd's.I'm a little stupid when it comes to computers.we talk about cars,music,ya know pal stuff.,she is 28.The thing is why I say little brother is because she is trans-gender.In other words she is going from female to male with the help of hormones and surgery.I lived for many years in California and really am cool with anyone who is g*y,trans,whatever. I see people for who they are not what lifestyle they live,so we became good pals.Now the lady I am dating didn't know about my friend being trans.I didn't think anything about telling her.So this lady told me that if I was to continue the relationship with her,that I have to never talk to my "trans" friend again and that I can never hang out with such "freaks".I thought after our few dates that perhaps a relationship would bloom from this but now I don't know what to do.I can't just dump my friend because of what this lady I am dating thinks...What would you do?
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