Let the past remain the past?

Question

Before summer started I got into a fight with one of my guy friends and till this day it really bothers me. After the fight he basically acted as if it never happened...but it did. It has been four months since the argument and i was wondering do you think that I should talk it out with him or let it go? There isn't a day where I think about it, mostly because i have a crush on him. The fight was over something small but it grew into something huge. I told him that i felt as if he was purposely ignoring me since he never talked to me as much as he did my other friends. As I was talking he cut me off and started yelling at me telling me that i was being over dramatic. Surprised I started to cry because I thought that it was extremely rude not to let me finish what I was saying. Earlier that month my bff got killed a car accident and I was feeling so alone, which is why i really needed him at the time. (he held me and stuff like that during that time but i wanted to talk to him)!After the fight everything got a tad bit better but thinking about it bothers me and I am still hurt from it.

Question: Should I bring it up when school starts on monday?

Thanks! =) (SORRY ABOUT THE LENGTH)

Answer 1

Honestly, it sounds that he's let it go, and he's still willing to be friends. I would definitely not bring it up again, because that would bring about past emotions. If you need to just say "Hey, I don't want to have any more arguements like before because it hurt me. We're good friends and I hope we can talk about our arguements in the future." and just leave it at that. Sorry about your friend, if you need to talk, tell him, he'll talk.  

Answer 2

girl when things like this happen you and the other party that  is concern needs to talk things over. he yelled att you before because he was hurt too... or frustrated...

but you and only you will know when is the right time...

use your heart it'll tell you what to do

Answer 3

i would say ask if he wants to be friends again , yes: have fun , no: ask him why

Answer 4

yup...he is not thinking about that fight...

u should be friends....y not act the way he is acting...i mean if he acts like nothing happened...u should act like that too...

dont bring the matter up again and again infront of him...good luck