Let us say you just married and your husband wanted to ?

Question

move to a home you had not seen yet and he continued on about how nice the house was etc....and you agreed to never dreaming that the house is not even in living conditions. Including to no sinks in the house so you are resorted to washing dishes in a tub that has a huge piece of plastic over the wall to prevent the environments from coming in.

How would you feel? And then after the shock of it you really try to deal with it and trust your husband is going to fix these issues and after almost a full month nothing has improved.

Tell me what would you do?

Answer 1

I would get the h**l out out of there and tell him if he wants to live like that to go right ahead.Tell him tha you are going to find someplace to go until these issues get fixed.

Answer 2

I WOULD SMACK HIM & LEAVE HIS @$$

Answer 3

Kick him square in the nuts.

Answer 4

Tell him you're leaving until the house is in living condition (and explain what that means to you because he obviously has a different definition of what "livable" is).  And then leave--move back to your other house, move back to your parents', move in with a friend.  And keep this in mine:  you may need to cross-examine your husband before agreeing to anything if you find his judgment vastly differs from yours on appropriateness.

Answer 5

Approach him calmly and explain the situation and how you feel in a very calm and slow voice. If he cannot understand that, then begin to scream and cry. he will think the living conditions are tripping you off!!!!

..loll

Answer 6

Well if I were you - I would rent yourself an apartment and tell him you will move back into this unfinished house when all the work is completed and you have inspected the changes before hand.

He has something to learn about respecting his wife, you have something to learn about self-respect.

It is not so much about a house as it is about respect for each other.

Answer 7

Either he is out of touch with reality or he is sadistic and trying to drive you away.

Either way you should leave.

He is not going to change.

Did he live like that before?

Answer 8

i would at least ask him   whats going on and ask him to move in another home cause the place is horrible and we cant live like rats. but i guess no married man will allow his family to live such place

Answer 9

I would leave until it was liveable or condemned, whichever came first.  

Answer 10

I personally would think that it was sweet. YOU have your own home. Fix it up together...thats sweet!