Yesterday I answered some questions regarding letting babies cry themselves to sleep....I can't believe the negative responses (thumbs down) that I recieved. I was not advocating letting a baby get distressed by not comforting them...in fact I stated that it really sux doing so. My point was that at some stage, the baby needs to be able to learn to calm themselves down for their own benefit as well as the mothers...& when I say "baby" I'm not referring to a newborn. So why all the negativity? I was only being helpful, I wasn't saying "Oh, just let them cry." I'm a realistic mum & after battling with a bub who would wake up as soon as I put him down or stopped patting him, I thought it was time to bite the bullet & let him learn to settle on his own. It wasn't fun by any means, but given time it worked out. I'm (obviously) offended. Maybe American Moms are different to Aussie Mum's....I don't know....
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