I knew this time would come eventually and I am really unprepared for it. I know as a parent there are times when you have to put your own personal feelings aside so your child can express himself and his own likes and dislikes, but at what point do you have to jump in and stop it??
My son is almost 11 and starting to act and dress like some of the kids in the neighborhood that does not represent our family in a very positive way and definitly does not reflect the way he was raised.
I know through Jr. High and High School there is peer pressure to "look cool" and dress a certain way but why does he have to wear his pants hanging half way down his a$$ when we pay good money to buy him clothes that fit??
And since when did it become the "norm" to not use good grammar? "He don't know what he be doin'" huh?? "My friend here, we out?" ?? "That tight, he tight, she tight, etc..."
I've made him rewrite his sentences in proper English but that doesn't work. Is it that hard to add a simple 2-3 letter word to your sentence? Why does that make you so "uncool?"
Everytime I see him I pull his pants up but I can't tell what he's doing when he's not with me, which is probably pulling them down again!
I know there are worse things he could be doing, basically he's a good kid. He's not into drugs, drinking, crime, but I'm afraid that if I don't step in now he'll push it too far. The other day he started talking about how his friends found out the gang signs for bloods and crypts. Now, I remember the whole mysteriousness and curiousity about the bloods and crypts being such bad gangs and all that when I was his age, (20 years ago), but he seems to be a little too interested in it.
Ughh...any advice. Would you lock him up until he's 18?? LOL...no really??
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