Libra...Anyone else is a Libra dating a Libra...???

Question

Are relationship is so emotional how do you keep it balanced? At times it feel as if we misinterpret everything the other is trying to say while at other time we know how there feel without them even saying anything??

Answer 1

Yes - and I find that breakups are inevitable with this combination. A breakup heralds a new phase of the relationship, and if you get back together, you know both of you will make this work.

Haha, I enjoyed reading Muse's account of their friend. They're 23 years - to a libra this is way young. I went through the same "c**p" with the Libra I was seeing, and I find time away will force a bit of "growing up". I personally think that the male is more at fault than the female (I may be biased here, but i dont care!), and this rockyness is to be enjoyed- it helps the person grow up and grow up fast! its either a success or a disaster, depending on how well they desire self improvement. If they prefer a status quo, it will go down the doldrums - if they seek inner growth - this will flourish better than other relationships. Its like putting a mirror before yourself and asking you to be your best friend and partner, with all those unsightly flaws and indecision.

I am in the "stagnant plateau" phase with my Libra man, and the trouble with this combi is that they keep pushing the ball to each others' courts. So, if nobody picks up the ball, its a real pity.

If my Libra man comes back to me (yes the ball is in his court!) I will have a personal testimony to this combi, else I would never date a libra again!

Answer 2

OH god. My friend is a libra with another libra, and it is one of the most dysfunctional, non healthy, super-emotionally manipulative relationships I have ever witnessed. And the bad thing is, they have a child together. Him being a libra means his mom runs his life, and her being a libra mean her family runs her life. They never can make mature sound decisions without everyone's input or involvement, people treat them as kids even though they're 23 years old. They always use this lame passive aggressive behavior to get what they want and always want to be nice to keep from confrontation even though they are manipulating behind the scenes. It's not healthy, and they keep going back to eachother. Just when one thinks he's losing control, he'll do all this "romantic" stuff she always wanted him to do for her, and she falls for it instead of just moving on. Libras are crazy.

Answer 3

I would not even attempt to understand another Libra.  You are just as confusing as they are, believe me.  The problem is, neither of you will ever admit to that, or ever admit to anything anyone sees you doing that they tell you is confusing. Fault is something you do not admit to - ever.

Seriously, forget it.