Life!!!!!!!!!!!! Help

Question

First my cousin got taken to a foster home because of drugs and while she was there all h**l broke loose my dad cheated on my mom and they got a divorce then a week later he got remarried and her doughter is driveing me crazy she is only 12 and im 16 she thinks she is the boss of ME. then my other cousin started to act like a little jerk and then i start drugs but not on them any more. My gpa is a drunk and my mom is such a ***** she spends all her child sapport on siggerets and things for her "friends" which are guys i know it dont sound so bad but i have a history of freking out so im scarred of hurting some one SOON what am i sapposed to do i need help remember im only 16

Answer 1

Do not stab your sister. But talk with someone that can help you. Try to control your anger.

Answer 2

just remember u can't control any 1

Answer 3

Ask your mom if you can see a counselor or ask the school to go see the school counselor.  You have a lot going on in your life that is tough to deal with.  You need a understanding person to sit with you and help you stay focused on your life and to help you deal with every thing that has taken  place and continues to take place in your life.

The counselor will set your parents down and explain how they can help you over come your anger and hurt and talk with them about things they can change for you, like your 12 year old step sister that is bossy.  Your dad should put a stop to that.  I know it is rough, hang in there and good for you not being on drugs any more.  That just makes your life more out of control.

Answer 4

Just calm down and keep a level head. It looks like you may be the one in the family to handle any major issues that arise. Just sit back, take a deep breath, don't get involved with the drama and just watch. Don't let anyone drag you down to their level. Good Luck.

Answer 5

JUst calm down...Try bringing everyone together and talk to everyone as one and let them know how there problems are braking you down......if they all won't come together as one try talking to them one at a time......and your sister who thinks she's your boss lay your rules down for her she still young and crazy things u say will scare her off a little well at least for now.

Answer 6

Very little of what's going on has anything to do with you, so resist the urge to "freak out" over other people's problems. There will be plenty of legitimate reasons to freak out later on without looking for them prematurely.