Life advice...?

Question

Give right and serious advice...

when you face problems from very early age, from childhood. Then your life take sharp turn and you blamed for very very high sin... God Help you in that time and you get courage, then your life take another sharp turn and you cheated... you got courage, then some one leave you, you can say that second love... but 2nd one didn't cheat, she have problem, mean she is right.

Extra courage which i always keep in my pocket is finished.

but again some litle courage born and i want that i come to life again, but keep myself again from all these things, so i don't make friends, nor i talk with some one (i don't know i fear from peoples or i hate), and after that i always injure myself (self injury), and do things like mad peoples...i feel guilty and shame that why i am so bad...

i tought last night that i come to life again like others but keep myself from another "SHARP TURNs".

so any advices?

Answer 1

worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you do not see Him, then He sees you.

Answer 2

well, all i can say is life's not a bed of roses. it comes with lots of problems and sadness and challenges. in every one of us, there is courage and bravery and we must find it within ourselves to fight the good fight against life's challenges and face the real world with the will to survive. hurting yourself isn't going to make yourself feel better. why don't you stand up, beat your chests and tell yourself i am going to live my life to the fullest. throw in the challenges! i will face them like a real man and enjoy every single moment of it. because i am no quitter.

and i believe you can. come what may buddy. come what may.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You are not the only one, almost every one faces these difficulties in life...these difficulties are the tests on the basis of which we will be judged by Allah...the key to success is how you respond to them.

1. Always pray to Allah to help you out, for there is no one else who understands you better or loves you more.

2. Try to take things positively.

3. Learn to forgive, for the sake of Allah.

4. Focus the bigger reward i.e. the happiness of Allah.

5. Whenever doing anything, always think whether Allah will like this act of yours or not.Feel Him, He is always watching you.

May Allah help you and guide you always (Amin).