Life? any answers please comment, every one?

Question

What is life or what is the meaning of life. I've always thought is to do what makes you happy. The thing is a don't know what a really want to do with my life. ave just went into a 3rd ear plumbing course and there is a choice to go back to college and get a better qualification but its not necessary, its optional. ,And i was talking to the lectures ,and they've just told me it would not be wise for me to go bk because they don't think i could handle the course work (for plumbing) so now its just shattered me i feel the size of an ant. i'm severely dyslexic but still, ave got so many goals in life, (for example) I went backpacking round europe and had a great time which makes think about different cultures so i would maybe like to go to university one day and do a degree in languages but if a can't pass a plumbing course what chance have i passing a degree course? NO chance. So my confidence just now is so low and when a go back to work am going to get so much trouble of my employer about the college not wanting me this year, but they did say if a get a bit of experience out on site this year then a could come back next year. but its so embarrassing a must be the only person in college thats went back for a 3rd year and been told maybe a should get a years experince. A just feel like packing a bag quiting my job and go working abroad maybe in america. Life just seems so uncertin right now, its like am a question mark with out the question beside me saying my purporse in life or who i am, and am sorry about my punctuation and spelling its just a feel so low a ended up drinking at 11. A geuss what i want is some to say oh life is going to turn out all right but. a know thats not happen so a want honesty. my lecture sat me down today and was telling me how am such a nice guy kind caring considerate,but nice guys don't go anywhere in life. so is there any answers out there??? and if a quit and try to get qualifcatins to go to uni then ave just wasted 3 years dong plumbing for nohing and it would be another 2 years before a could go to university.

Answer 1

I don't agree with the answer you got about life being just to live. With everything in me, I believe we were put on this earth to serve and worship our Creator. However, we all have different ways of doing that, and different gifts to use to help others. If yours is plumbing, then you need to work hard at it because others definitely need your talents.

Sounds to me like you are having a problem with self discipline and making decisions. I don't know how old you are, but you already know you can't go on like this forever. Choose one goal or the other and work to do the best you can towards that goal. There will be people who will discourage you, but don't let them dictate your future. It's frustrating to hear negative things, but you have to tell yourself that you CAN make it. You CAN figure this out. You CAN become a success at what you choose to do.

And nice guys can go places. Unfortunately our world has taught people to try to be better than other people and put other people down to prove our own worth. However, I'm married to a nice guy who has been very successful. He's a hard worker and has taught our son the value of hard work. But, they both are honest and people trust them because they are honest. So, please don't give up. I'm sure you have a great deal to offer others and to use to make a good life for yourself. You deserve the best. But the best only comes through hard work, so don't give up!

Answer 2

It may be worth trying a different line of work. Maybe plumbing isn't your strength. There are a multitude of different trades out there. Don't give up after the first hurdle. I know it's an old cliche, but what doesn't kill you definitely makes you stronger. If you're not so hot on the coursework, why not try something more theoretical instead of practical?

So what if they rejected you? It's their loss!

Answer 3

Ear plumbing sounds much better than dong plumbing in my opion.

As for the meaning of life dont know, but I think it has nothing to do with plumbing, You go find yourself m8, try to be a better person every day. If you can make one person smile, then life isn't wasted. If that one person is you, your on the way, try and spread it. good luck.

Answer 4

There is no 'meaning of life'!  There is just life, and it beats the h**l out of being dead!  If your life, or rather your future, seems to be uncertain, then do something to make it have some direction.  Do whatever you feel will make you happy! If you need to 'achieve' to be happy, then go to college.  Or be a plumber! Get that under your belt and then take off and do whatever you want before you feel the urge to settle down and maybe raise a family.  Forget the old 'we were put on this earth to serve god' rubbish.  If there were a god, he wouldn't need us to 'serve' him, or worship him! Those are human vices.  Live while you are alive because when you die, you are DEAD!

Answer 5

Comments on life? Loathe it or ignore it, you can't like it.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

I don't know the meaning of life,

But i would go with what suits you best. If that means following your heart or making the most out of life by doing what makes you happy.  Grades don't have to be important, they can help but there are other ways round it. But it should be your choice!

Good luck

Answer 8

The meaning of life is to live.Thats it.Both life while your alive and when your dead.To exist in any form is the most important thing there is.Be happy,make other people as happy as you,help people who need help,defend freedom,stand up for your beliefs and pass them on to the future as well as your genes because thats how you still live.Lifes not easy and tough ****,thats survival.Thats part of the struggle and if it wasnt there then life wouldnt be worth living.You just have to live and thats it.Quitters never win and winners never quit.

Answer 9

Don't you your brain, just do what your heart tells you to do.