Life fails.....how to start new life?

Question

im 18 years old, fail 4 years in high school stuck in 9th grade still for some reason that i have some social disease, peoples, friends, relatives, calling me stupid, garbage, useless, people dont respect me at all, pick on me, cursing me, insulting me , one day i try to suicide, my mom call police, and send me to Mental illness hospital for 2 months, i take medicines, it gets little better but still the same problem, i try hard to get rid of my social disease but nothing works, dono wat to do in my life now ...

Answer 1

The perfect solution for you that leave your school and develop some habit according to your interest and make it your profession, enjoy it for rest of your life. Don't think what people say live your life as you want to live.

Answer 2

Go do some social service to differently able people.You come to know,how confident are they in their life.Despite of odds in their life, they want to live happily as much as they can.You cannot be social with others,no problem.Just help others in whichever way you can.Learn some art work and do it whenever you feel low.You become better.

Learn some yoga and pranayama and do it daily.Miraculously people talk to you with great respect.Always be polite to everyone.

Answer 3

hi,friend aim anu i can understand your problem. are you concentrate on

your study, oak , you don't interested in that you choose what is the best you feel in your mind . please take your life as a challenge.

you don't you any thing work you became a lazy person.and you know

no respects lazy person.

you can do everything i have a confident on you.

don't loose your believe on yourself.first you change your thinking suicide

like that.you have the best future in your hands, you are the best do hard work now you have a good future in the future.all the best . buy.

Answer 4

okay maybe try going to a college for high school classes so you can finish faster and then just after that go to college get it done with and move someone to start fresh. A clean new start after your education is taken care of is the best choice

Answer 5

get your GED and join the army.

Answer 6

   ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE.....

BECOZ TODAY'S NEWSPAPERS WILL BECOME

        TOMORROW'S WASTE PAPERS

                                  

  thats life

SO ENJOY UR LIFE .

LIFE IS PRECIOUS

Answer 7

hey.....u r really facing a tough time....see, nobody is bound to be intelligent and perfect in this world....the thing which should be there in a person is only the positive thinking.....i know how u must be feeling as no one likes u....its just because u can not study.....some ppl have this problem and they can not do anything for it....

first of all, let the ppl say bull ****, but u dont have to think abt ending up ur life....life is really a gift of god and we have no right to end it till god wants.....

second, if u r not good at studies, better make out the other talents in u like painting, music or whatever maybe of ur interest and excel in that....

thirdly, tell ur mom that she should not treat u so badly.....its out of ur hands and u can not do anything for what has happened.....tell her to help u out in exploring ur talents.....

Answer 8

you are a brave and intelgent girl.

you want to start new life then you stop thinking your past what ever.

then only you feel new life and enjoying yourself in new.

ok dear best of luck. think better and enjoy.

Answer 9

Dear Questioner,

At least one thing is sure that you are not stupid, if you would have been stupid then you would have not written about yourself on yahoo.

See, you have good mummy with you, who loves you and cares about you, what happened if you are failed in 9th standard 4 time, there are many personality who have not gone to school and reached on height of success in life. Recognize in you other positive points apart from education, there must be other strong points in you such as technically or otherwise, please inform me what is your family background, where do you stay and what were your subjects in 9th, what is your present status, then i am definite that I can help you in your life as Yahoo Community to come out of your situation.

First thing you must accdept that you are not fool, only thing you require the right road to go, you will get.

Sucide thought is coward thought, thinking of you to sucide will not make you die, you have to live on this earth till God wants as he has kept control on our birth and death,  you will die when God will want, then why not do something good for ourselves and other good till we live. Going for suicide will not solve your purpose, love yourself, love your family, love society, they will start loving you, forget their bad comments to you, accept those as challenge in your life, become some big person and show them something big, you will love.

You are too young, whole life is waiting for you to live, tell me about your gender, then I can let you know some ways to live more gracefully send your email ID so that you can talk freely without any hesitation. I can tell about me only that I am much elder then you in age and experience of life, ask any one what is life, life is full of experience, start new life from today, think it is your first day, be happy, find reason of unhappiness, remove the reason. we on this earth want youngster to come forward they are our future.

with all love

your well wisher

Answer 10

i think you should get marry to someone who is not from your hometown, and go along with him to his place and stay happily, OR if you have any relatives or some friends try to go there for a month or so, just change your place where you live, everything will be alright

and later when u feel better then try to find what is behind you are fail for 4 years, may be you need tutions ? or if you are not happy to study then just join to some other courses like Tailoring, fashion designing or other art school.

every human have something special in them, its just we have to findout what, and if you find what is the best thing in you try to build a career in that.

good luck dear.

Answer 11

hi, first of all, failure is temporary, success too is temporary.One action leads to another, if u continue failing, u keep on failing, if u rise to correct things oriented to success, you keep on succeeding...Start the day from tomorrow as u have come on mother earth only yesterday.

1.Do NOT think about past.

2.Have a rigrous schedule for the day, start with prayer,exercise.

3.Have small goals for the day, it may be like meeting a friend, achieve this goal by all means, it will instill confidence in you and will give you a purpose.

4.Have your goals defined in consultation with your parents, they are the best support on earth.

5.Do everything to achieve them.

Slowly, god willing within days u will find that darkness is fading and a light is emerging in your life. U are too young to think suicide....keep it up. Remember, every one has failed in life once or twice, or many times to be precise, U R NO EXCEPTION. Many have succeeded after repeated failure, and naturally, WHY SHUD U BE AN EXCEPTION?

take care,

Answer 12

maybe high school doesnt suit u

u r definately not stupid just from the way u write i can tell ur mind works fast so try finding a trade or something u r good at

be strong and trust me u r not stupid even in ur dark time and depressed state while writing this msg i can see a fast thinking intelligent person and im not just saying it

your grammer is not perfect but on the yahoo india site is is probably one of the best in terms of grammer and sentence structure

why dont u start creative writing try ur hand at story writing or maybe writing about various events around the world  read books and improve ur grammers i reckon it wont be hard for u to do so

you have a sharp mind so come on you can do it i reckon the people around you are bringing you down now it is up to you to be strong plzzzz we r all with u  post ur stuff on ym and ask for our opinion id love to see more written by u  ps i want contact me il send u some TEFL modules ie english  

Answer 13

fai;ureis not the end of life,u see,the end of the rope is never the end of hope.u are a normal person,think for your self.ending your life is not a solution,its a coward's act.meditate.succecc will be yours give a ttry again.pray,beyond all our problems we have a heavenly father our creator who is always there for us.only that we dont go to him.please dont lose heart.u can do well in your studies.

god bless u

Answer 14

Hello Hi friend, hows going on ur Life? very sad? Don't worry friend ...call me i talk with  u..send me ur Mobile number.i call u ...we are discuss with your life style change.ok!!!

Don't worry.....be happy

Bye Freind..Today have a happy day.....!

with Best Friend

Malar.

Chennai.