Life issues?

Question

First off I am mostly likely bipolar but that isn't really a problem to me it's just that I can get bored and depressed real easily. Also I have commitment issues because I like more than one girl and they like me also so I can't choose between them and this gets even bigger because I would like to have kids some day and possibly get married yet I want to devote my life to learning languages and traveling. Also kind of contradicting but I like to be alone but at the same time I hate being alone but it feels like no matter where I go I won't ever find the girl I am looking for and that I am going to die alone and I have accepted this and it doesn't bother me much but when it does I become very depressed to where music or friends can't cheer me up. I refuse to pay someone to tell me I have problems or take pills. I just want to know what people think about all this?

Answer 1

I agree with chris 777.

Pretty much what you have is normal, life anxiety.

happens to everyone at some stage, especially when you're right on the edge/cusp of something, like finishing Uni/College, moving house or starting a new job.

Married n kids... don't think about that. that will happen in due course.

The girls that you like, just be friends with them. if its meant to happen, it will. Girls are great mates to have cos they're good at comforting.

Start traveling and learning as soon as, chances are, you may meet someone while doing this who wants exactly the same. Seriously, don't think about falling in love or anything, if its going to happen it will, you may aswell get as good as you can at languages until then.

Everyone likes to be alone somtimes, its no biggy. Dont think about dying.. ever.

Think about living.

Answer 2

It sounds just like you are restless and searching for a clear path... NOT a disease just normal behavior. You're bored, same thing.... find something that interests you. You sound smart, interested in non mainstream ideas and paths, find one and go for it.

Don't take pills and ****, so what if you can't commit or are sometimes down... EVERYONE is like that.