Life so pain ...?

Question

they insult me whenever they want to,those 2 moron in my family thinks im garbage,useless and stupid, whenever they feel not good, they insult me, i really hate that, they even told there friend in my face, my mom and dad doesnt really cares, i wish i can move out this familly, but im 9th grade still and im 18 years old for some reason...wow am i such a failer in life........

Answer 1

Hi ther..how unfair to be treated so..But tell u wht, use the fire they stir in u to prove urself and show them they have miscalculated. Losers r not the ones who fail...its the one who quits I dont want u to quit ever as u never know victory mite jus be not far. I hav gone thru lots of failures though i tried so hard. But iv never given up...I believe for some success comes later in life but greater.

No one is lucky all their life. Everyone goes thru the pain in one phase or another. Ppl who hav not known pain now will probably face it later and it will be more difficult. Ya know..ppl say life is like drinking coffee..its bitter till d last sip only to discover the sugar lying at the bottom..so be patience..none of the tears shud go to waste. I dont care how many times u failed but great leaders of all time have said this..never give up, never never giv up..and never ever ever giv up!

U ll be sitting for board exam in 10th rite? Its a great opportunity to fuel up urself and show them wht uv got. For tht u need to work hard and consistently...keep tht in front of ur mind. If u quit now u ll remain a loser. Giv urself a chance even when others dont. U can do it. We strangers think u can do it dont u believe u have potential?

After ur done wit schooling u ll get admission to gud college and start earning on ur own. Live ur own life..tht time all this pain will b bittersweet memory. Live life to the fullest! All da best

Answer 2

hey sweety....i can totally relate to wat u'r goin thru i'v been thru it to....n still am...but givin p on life is not da simple solution...always remember no1 can make u feel inferior unless u give them the right to...try taking a stand for ur sself..and to people who r insulting u..are they older to u or younger..if so did u ever stop n tell them dat u do not like being totured or insulted..try it, it may just wrk..if not...well sumtimes it is better to give it a t*t for Tat......

tc..

Answer 3

why u are worried? that someone care u or not? dont think that nobody cares u. from ur question, i feel that u are a nice boy, no reason that anyone think u like a garbage. i assure u that u will be very successful person in ur life. u handle ur mom &dad carefully, give a present on their special day from ur pocketmoney, and try to convince from ur behaviour that u like u. they will defenately change. they may have some their individual problems in their life so they might not have care u. and dont move out from ur family. all the best.

Answer 4

you should love yourself.dont think mutch about others.you must like your work

Answer 5

Sweetheart, don't loose heart ok.  Just because they say you are so and so, does not make it true, unless you begin agreeing with them.  You don't do you?  If you don't then how can you be what they say, so let them waste their breath, YOU don't waste your own time on anyone who is so usless that they have to put you down in order to feel superior.  Ignore and pity them, for they have no life outside of finding faults with everything anyone else does.  As for mom and dad, if you don't react, they won't care either.  There is no need to cry in front of them, about how everyone is picking on you,  YOU have the power in you to shut them up, by not paying the slightest attention to anything they say about you, cause you know you are better then them, (AT least you don't go around dragging people down just to feel good).  So negetive thinking is not going to make you feel better or infact do anything better.  So be positive, say to yourself, I am ok, and if no one else is ok with that idea, it is THEIR problem not mine.  I can do whatever I set my mind to.  Put you time in interests outside of family and friends.  Draw paint, read, anything that you enjoy and don't waste your time around this kind of negative attitude OK!  You have the power to change their minds by not letting them get to you by reacting to anything they say.  Rember, an insult given to you, does not really belong to you if you don't take it, it will just bounce off and go back to the giver and make him look like an idiot in the end.

Always rember one thing, you are as good as YOU think you can be.  So always work towards being the best in your area, weather it is sports, or studies.  Let your work speak not your tonge.  Failure is always the first step towards success, but you need to keep taking steps in order to reach for success.  Trying and failing is always better then sitting and complaining.  At least you have guts to try to change things.  And always look for somthing positive in anyhing they say to you, I know it is hard to do, but be honest (TOTALLY), and ask yourself, is there somthing I can do about what they are saying, are they right, think impersonaly, and ask if there is any room for improvement, if there is take that partand improve yourself (you can even thank them latter after improvement, for pointing out that particular shortcoming, they have after all helped you to beome BETTER), and if there is no room and you LIKE yourself as you are, then stick with it.  You don't need anyones approval for your happines, so do not depend on the comments of others, or attitudes of other to make you happy, creat it yourself, by loving yourself and respecting others as you would like to be respected.

Answer 6

i can understand wat u r going through . but u just do one thing that is try to prove sumthing to them that u can also do sumthing in life but pls do not try to attewmpt suicide an d any other such things in life . just think that leaving those 2 rest of ur family members love u and are wid u in every walk of life . so jusprove urself to those 2 idiots and i am wid u .