Listen!!!Am I the only one who has two sides?

Question

Listen when im with my family, i am cool quiet, sometimes. but most importantly say what i want!..at work in social situations I am just as aware, talk to people confidently promote myself etc... yet there is a even larger side that just holds back or doesnt really care doesnt want to conform doesnt care if people think im weird...ill speak when i want ...illrise to a challenge if needed but then the result of this is that people dont understand it and think i know nothing or im stupid...so whats wrong with m? anyth9ng? am i stupid...if so to what degree? tell e your experiences!

Answer 1

Just my opinion.  Nothing is wrong with you.  I am the same.  Even if you do not believe in birth signs--check yours out.  You are considered a chameleon.

Answer 2

You're fine.  Most of us are like that.  

There are times when I choose to be one way just to play devil's advocate, and I don't believe in what I am debating, so that someone else can see how another person might see it.

Smile you're fine.   :)

Answer 3

Nope I'm like that too. Its different with Friends and family

Answer 4

im like that too. to my family i can be a b***h and yell and make as much fuss as i want. but to my friends, im nice. i never make fun of anybody except for when i really don't like them. i don't yell at my friends because im afraind of hem getting mad and never being my friend anymore.

so you're not the only one who has two sides. but sometimes i think i have three, because when im by myself i sorta kinda talk to myself........and something funny? i answer myself.

Answer 5

I have 4 sides front, right, back, and left.

No I think everyone has multiple faces they show to the world. I am very confident and sometimes confrontational at home, confident and not confrontational  with friends, and not confident or confrontational at work.

Different sitiations call for different attitudes, its fine.

Answer 6

Dont worry, I think we are all like that.  like my socioligy professor said: We all have masks that we wear all the time, the mistery is the real person.