Little help?! [kinda confusing]?

Question

Ok, I was on holiday last week and "made friends" with a guy who worked in a shop.

I got his myspace and when I got back home we started talking on MyspaceIM

After a day he started saying things like "If you were a few years older I'd ask you out" and "I wish you were here so I could kiss you and hold you close to me"

This kind of creeped me out and he's 30 and I'm 15 and I honestly didn't think he was like that.

I told him what he said was out of order and he said he was sorry and he was just lonely .

I don't want to have to block him because he seemed ok in person and I do believe that he is very lonely but is that really a good enough excuse?! Could he be doing this to other people?!

Answer 1

You'd best go ahead and block him.

People often are not what they seem when you meet them.

Remember, First impressions can be deceiving. Being lonely is no excuse for perverted predatory behavior. If he is talking like this with you, then I'm sure their are others he's tried the same thing with?

Do some research on Ted Bundy. Everyone said he was the nicest guy you could meet. He was a serial killer. Predators are often very good at convincing people they are nice guys. That's how they get their victims to trust them.

Now you know what he's really like.

Take Care, and use the Block.

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Answer 2

Go ahead and block him.  Kudos to you for recognizing that his advances were inappropriate.  Yes, he could very well be doing this to others, but you need to worry about yourself.  The comment about wanting to kiss and hold you seems way creepier than an offhanded, "Too bad you're not older, I'd ask you out," especially since you don't know each other that well.  Stay away from him.

Answer 3

I completely agee with Alan.

Answer 4

Yes, I believe that he is, You are only 15yrs old,  He is a 30 yr old man! If he isn't a pervert, or if he has any respect for you  he would never had given you his my space in the first place,  or said the things that he had said to you! So I think that the smartest thing for you to do is  to block him. You are young and you have your whole life ahead of you. Please don't allow a disgusting jerk to ruin it for you?

Be careful.

Take Care & Good Luck