Little predicament (girls)?

Question

ok so its still summer and everything and i had a one night stand with a girl and thats how i want to leave it but thats not how she sees it...she is exoecting us to date and go to homecoming together...how should i turn her down without completely crushing her

Answer 1

simple....tell her that this is not a good time for you, as you have family commitments, and work is quite hectic at the moment, you are not in a position where you have enough free time on your hands for dating/relationship........ you have a very busy scheldue ahead of you.........  its to the point, and well, and in a way, its honest.....

:)

Answer 2

Tell the truth. It may hurt her but she deserves it. Don't lie.

Answer 3

tell her the truth,,that she's a really pretty , attractive girl, you were attracted her but you don't feel the same way she does. you're not ready for a commitment with her,

Answer 4

Tell her it was nice while it lasted. And tell her it's you not her. And that your such a doofus for not liking her. And that ur seeing someone else.

Answer 5

Learn early that to girls, s*x=love. It is totally different for guys.  

Answer 6

tell her she's a great girl and you had fun with her but you just would feel better starting school with no attachments. you can tell that you're not the guy for her and she can find a better one. a one-night stand is a terrible way to start a relationship and you just don't think it will happen. maybe buy her some candy too?

Answer 7

Well your just going to have to tell her!! That should have been made clear that it was a one time thing only and agreed upon before it happened!!

Answer 8

Tell her that you really didn't want to take things further.. there really is no way to get around this without crushing her, you just have to do it as soon as possible so it hurts her less. My advice? Don't have anymore one night stands.  

Answer 9

Well, say 'I really like you, but I'm not sure if this could work.It was one night we were 'together' and I think we should keep it @ that' or something like that.

Answer 10

just say it was a mistake and u only see her as a friend

hopefully uv learnt ur lesson now lol hehe

Answer 11

Did you tell her from the start 'twas a one night stand?

She will get over it...but you may not.

You are behaving in a selfish lustful manner..some day you will realize

that you are a user of people and that you havr hurt many people....

and YOU will be CRUSHED...and that yopu will never get over.