Little "witch" in my sisters class?

Question

I know that their are some tight groups in elementry school for me it was middle school, but at my sisters school you already have just bitchness. She is 8 and one girl in the class started a club and everyone in the class is invited except her and another girl. my sister is really upset. I have the girls older sister in my class should i talk to her. Parents are no help otherwise i wouldn't be asking strangers for adive. how can i help my sister

Answer 1

tell her that if that nasty wich dont let her in then she will make her own club her and that other girl they left out and trust me your sister dont need that girl she has other people but help her make a club and make it good so the other girls get out of the other club and join in to hers plz give me a thumbs up i really need the points of give me 10 pints

Answer 2

First of all, two wrongs won't make a right in taking revenge. Secondly, as hard as it is, stay out of it. It will only make it worse.  Think how you'd feel if the shoes were on the other feet so to speak and this other girl told you your little sister was being mean to hers. You'd be angry!

Finally, this kind of stupid stuff passes as fast as it starts. At least it wasn't just her that was excluded and she can make friends with this other little girl in her class. She's better off without those other girls and their brattiness.

Answer 3

if you are friends with the girl's sister or at least friendly you should talk to her. you dont want to sound like youre trying to fun your sister's life and DEFINITELY not that her sister is mean because otherwise she wont want to help you. if someone told me my little sister was doing that i would definitely talk to her.

otherwise just tell your sister that girls do that to make themselves feel better and she should just try to ignore them and stick to her friends. if any of her good friends are in the group tell her to just talk to them.

Answer 4

That's just how school is. This little girl is probably jealous of your sister over something petty (talking to one of her friends etc.) and is trying to take revenge

Answer 5

tell ur sis to do the same, make a club that everybody is invited to except that girl, just make sure it is more appealing and more fun to the other kids, help give her ideas to make it more fun. then if the girl apologizes, tell ur sister to let her in the club, to be the better person. or make a club that everybody even the girl is invited to at the beginning.

Answer 6

You could turn into her best friend, you know do all kinds of things with her that she would normally do with someone her age that way she won't feel like she needs a friend at school and the other thing, if you become the best friend she has never had she might go to school bragging about how her sibling is her best friend and it will show those kids that are being mean that she don't need em. There's nothing that will draw people in more than someone who don't need the people around them.

Answer 7

Give her comfort and tell her that if they don't want to be her friend, they are missing out because she's an amazing girl. Also tell her that those witches aren't going to get far in life because they are bratty and she shouldn't be a part of that.

Answer 8

show your lil sis how to beat the b*****s *** down.

then the class will know who's running it.

forreal.

Answer 9

i feel bad for ur sister...kids are becoming b------ in training  earlier than ever!

Answer 10

send your sister to school tomorrow with something all the other kids her age want, not enough for everyone but enough so the kids will see and want one too then she can share and help the group break up. candy's good

Answer 11

It will only get worse in middle school. My sister knows all about it. If she continually complains, get a counselor at the school to look into it. Kids are shamed into apologizing once an adult reprimands them. I'm a guy but I know people who have suffered unnecessarily because they didn't get the right help.

Answer 12

Oh, we girls can be so cruel!

First, your sister should say something to her teacher. Most schools today have a no-bullying policy and this is a form of bullying.

Second, don't address the girl's sister. I know your first instinct is to protect your sister, but this is her issue. Please continue to be there for her, but she has to deal with this in her class with her teacher if need be.

Can you make time to have special outings with your sister? Nothing trumps mean 8 year olds than getting to go cool places with your big sister.

Answer 13

The "click" will be over within a week I would say. Somebody will disobey the "rules" of the group and she will be mad so then it will all fall apart. Just let your sister know that this will pass.