Locker rooms ???????

Question

well i'm going in to 8th grade soon and they require for us to shower and i'm EXTREMLY nervous about showering since no one has seen down there in a while expect me idk what to do ???

Answer 1

The more nervous and frightened you seem the more likely you will be teased by the others to cover up their own insecurity.  Don't make the mistake of trying to hide your genitals too obviously either.  This will also make some kids pick on you to distract others from their own "shortcomings".  If they do pick on you, just practice saying "F**k you!  Has anybody seen yours?"  That's almost _guaranteed_ to make others look at them and get the spotlight off you!  Supreme confidence in this situation (even if faked) is the trick!

Answer 2

don't worry about it just don't stare at other guys

Answer 3

Every boy in your class probably feels the same way and is just as nervous. After the first day, none of you will think anything of it, I promise you.

It's actually a valuable experience.  Without it, boys become obsessed about whether they're "normal."  Seeing each other naked in different stages of development (not everyone develops at the same time or at the same rate or in the same way) reassures them as to the wide range of "normal."  The fact that no one has seen you naked since you started puberty is a sign that it's time you learned to show off your mature (or maturing) body to others who will appreciate it:  boys just as self-conscious as you.

Answer 4

In general everyone else in that locker room will be feeling the same way (boy or girl). As far as grooming down there, if you have an open relationship with your parents ask them what is appropriate and how if you are a little unsure. Another source may be an older sibling or cousin, what is required will be different for boy and girl, and even each individual.

I feel a swimsuit will definately single you out, and kids that age like to pick at others insecurities. I guareentee you that others are uncomfortable also. You will become more comfortable each and everyday and realize it isn't going to be a big deal.

Answer 5

It's normal to feel a little uncomfortable about it.  Trying to hide just calls attention to your nervousness.  The truth is, everyone else is nervous too.  You have nothing to be ashamed of.  Just do it, get it over with, and it'll be OK.  (And, as others have mentioned, gawking is definitely not a good idea.)

Answer 6

When i was in 8th grade, we didnt have 2 shower but change in front of everyone else and i was SOO nervous cause i was one of the smaller guys but they didn't really care or noticed. I just changed and showered REAL fast. Even though you may look weird, try to be the first one in and out of the showers. It may easier for you.

Answer 7

make sure u do not peek around or if u do peek make sure no one notices and try not to get horny and get in then get out

Answer 8

wear a bathing suit...if someone asks why you were a bathing suit just say you arent comfortable or just straight up feel weird...if you give an honest answer no one will remember that you ever did that..

plus it is 5 minutes out of your entire day...other people are not going into the shower waiting for you to come in anyways...everyone will carry on with their own business and talk when theyre done

Answer 9

um. kinda cover urself with may-b a towel or somthing. but remember.... everyone will look like u and no-one will bug u about what u look like, just dont act nevace

Answer 10

Just do it. You need to get used to being nude, so start sleeping nude, and spending as much time around your house when alone nude so you are more comfortable moving around without clothes.  Not at all unusual to need to shower after PE, as guys your age do stink.

Best is to just act natural and normal and boldly strip and change without comment, and to shower without hesitation. Don't worry about erections, guys rarely get them in locker rooms unless there is a lot of talk about s*x.  Most guys will be somewhat apprehensive. But if you are in decent shape, no reason to feel self conscious.  Keep in mind also that every guy looks basically the same down below when not erect, so not a lot of reason to worry about how you look.

Good luck!  

Answer 11

Mr. James...I agree with most here. Everyone is going to be nervous.

If it really bothers you, like what was said, Go in take your shower, and get out.

But I think your going to find out that it's really not that bad.

Specially when the class clown breaks the ice so everyone can just relax.

You all guys, you all have a p***s, there all going to be different shapes and sizes.

Feel free to look, but don't stare.

I wouldn't wear my swimming trunks in the shower is 99% of the boys are going to be naked.

...who showers with there trunks on??

I was a PE assintant. (in my 11th - 12th grades) I helped out the Jr. high PE teacher. Showers weren't manditory, but the kids received extra points when they did. It was one of my jobs to keep track.

And yes there were 3 kids, (nerdy type kids) who showered with there trunks on, and they got made fun of all the time. Because everyone else would shower naked, and they were to shy.

But it's up to you. Once you get in and out, your going to realise that its not all that bad.

Don't be affraid to show that body off, I'm sure your going to do fine!

Answer 12

lol you shouldn't worry to much about it I'm sure it'll be just as awkward for all the other guys as well. : ) Good Luck I hope you feel better  

Answer 13

Almost everyone is uncomfortable with group nudity - at first.  Within a week or two, you won't think anything of it.  

If you're concerned about your size, there's going to a huge range of small to large and no one will be unique.  I had to start the group shower thing in 7th grade and continued through college.  I never saw anyone ridiculed because of their size - and no one was smaller than me as I was a very late bloomer.  

If you're concerned about erections, just remember that it's normal and anything can cause arousal in teen boys.  Of all the group showers I took, I was only aware of two guys having erections and they were both ignored.  No one made a big deal of it.

I remember stressing over this when I was your age.  It turned out that it was all in my head - just like it is in your's.  Just go with the flow and don't make a big deal out of it.

Answer 14

We started in 7th grade, not a big deal! You will get over it! All guys are basically the same....shorter, longer, cut and a few uncut!

Answer 15

make sure that you don't show your nervouseness.

cause they will probably laugh at you .

and it's okay. i heard that they don't care what  happens

Answer 16

all the boys in your class are feeling the same way

it's really no big deal to be naked in front of boys your age

most everyone is pretty much the same size, there are some who will be bigger and some smaller

get your shower and get dressed

Answer 17

if you had a big one you wouldnt be as nervous =P and people usually keep their eyes up and dont tend to stare and drool over it.  

Answer 18

well you should probably wear shorts cause that 's what a lot of guys do at our school and i know that cause i heard ia guy talkig about it in the hallway in school  

Answer 19

Well Im sure that there will be privacy and separate showers... How can the expect 8th graders to shower naked together - I don't think so.

If not just bring some swimming trunks and shower with them on. Or just wet your hair and pretend you showered LOL.

Answer 20

NO! NO! no! THATS TOTALY MESED UP! if you dont want to shower then you shouldnt have to! thouse dam gym teachers must be pervs! in my school they DONT require it and i dont know any school that does! i would talk to your principal..

Cheers!

Answer 21

Don't let this get you down. Everybody else will probably be feeling nervous as well. Don't worry about what anyone else is doing - just get in there and have your shower.

Answer 22

It is a little inappropriate that your school requires eighth graders to shower.  You should have your parents file a complaint with the superintendent.  Showering should not be required, but changing your clothes is fine.

Answer 23

Hey James - I imagine that a lot of the other soon-to-be 8th graders are feeling the same way. The more you worry about it the worse the experience will be.

8th grade showers are tricky because puberty hits different kids at different times - some are ahead of the pack and others are behind. And believe it or not but either end of the scale can be embarassing.

My advice for what it's worth - bite the bullet, get in, do your thing and get out without any fuss. After a few times everyone will probably be more comfortable and less nervous/embarassed.

Good luck :-)

Answer 24

Think of it this way. They're probably just as nervous as you are. The ones who might take advantage of the situation are probably releasing their own nervousness.

Also remember that NOBODY else should see those parts whatsoever. If they do...and harass you about it...get an adult right away.

Otherwise you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 25

Well, the whole thing isn't really that big deal.  They really don't watch other guys like that.

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Answer 26

just wearr a towel around ur waist!! everyone at my high school does it!

Answer 27

woah. they want you to shower in 8th grade.  ur school is weird.  

Answer 28

dont worry u will be fine