Lonely & alone.....?

Question

Here I am, day after day, lonely & alone. I just don't know what to do. My long-term b/f leaves for work, and I am here at home, alone. Monday - Friday I am all by myself for 10 hours a day. I have no kids, no pets and no job. I try visiting my sister and her kids, but that only takes up a few hours a day. I can not bear being alone all the time! I know.... I have no life. Well, due to medical issues, I can not have or hold a job. I just don't know what to do with my time, or how to make peace with being alone all the time. We are getting a puppy in a few weeks; the doctor said it would be healthy for me. Any suggestions? (Other than: "Don't be such a lame looser!")

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I am always home alone too every single day. My mom and brother both work but I don't because I don't have a car. At eighteen and no car, yeah lame I know :(

Well besides getting a job I suggest making some friends? Getting a pet is also a good way to keep your mind occupied I love my cat I am very close to her. I'm always the only one around her since everyone else is away all day.

Maybe find a hobby?

Good luck

♥

Answer 3

Get  yourself  a  nice  hobby  that  you  will  be  happy  to  do  and  meditation  to  clear  your  mind.go  to  an  arts  and  crafts  store  to  have   an  idea  of  what  you  are  interested  in,there's  lots,learn  an  instruments ,It  is  a  companion  already  when  you  learn  one  or  maybe  you  do  know

already  ,that's  GOOD,.................Smile   and  be  peaceful

Answer 4

first you need to tell your therapist about this problem. then if you cannot hold or have a job, find things around the house to do, clean etc. if you know how to sew or do little crafty things, ask your bf what he would like and practice making it. you know what i mean? and pray, you are not alone in this situation, know that!!  think of things you like to do and try to do them! good luck ! and you are not a loser, there are things out there to help you!

Answer 5

while waiting for your puppy, why not take time to search the web regarding your soon-to-be-pet. that would help you know things regarding how to train your pet. if it won't take up your time, try cleaning the house everyday. yup. everyday. it will not only make your boyfriend happy it also helps you in some healthy ways. if your house is already clean, try walking around town. so you would know who are the people in your neighborhood who is available during the times that you are bored or felt alone so that you could invite them or chat with them whenever you feel alone. it will not only kill your loneliness but also you can gain new friends.

Answer 6

i am in a similar bind at home with mom who has cancer i spend hours online mostly here and warcraft

Answer 7

;your life is largely made up of what you make it.  So start investing yourself in helping other  people and your will really enjoy life.  As you did it unto one of the least --- so you have done it unto me.  God bless you.

Answer 8

Try and  find things to do to occupy your day.  Find a hobby.  Read.  Try to expand your mind.

Can you drive?  Take the car out for a drive.  Dont be couped in the house all day.

Answer 9

Hi Crystal....I can so relate to your problem. I can't work due to health problems, so i am alone all day every day. My husband is gone from 6 am to 6 pm, and when he does get home he is tired and not very talkative ( so really, i'm still alone ). I have no family, and most of my friends are at work all day, and with their families at night. An animal will help you a lot. I have pets, and they help me. A dog will be a good companion for you. Do you ever feel like you're the only person that doesn't get up and go to work everyday??? I do, people always give me a strange look when i tell them i don't work ( which also upsets me ). Wish i could be of more help. Just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. Good Luck with your new puppy...Hugs :-)

Answer 10

i am in the same boat as you and i understand exactly what you are going through..........but i guest why don;t you invite someone over or get out the house and go sit outside or walk around trust me you will will see a big difference

Answer 11

Have you considered a part time job? Or perhaps do some voluntary work to help you get out of the house and interact with people.

You should also consider studying something. Anything you have an interest in - there are lots of courses that vary in length and commitment. Get a course prospectus from your local college to see what is on offer. The interaction with other people will be great for you as well as the sense of achievement and purpose as you learn a new skill, art or whatever it is you choose to do.

good luck!

Answer 12

try photography... just have a camera and go to places and take pictures of the sceneries...and have it published on your site..

Answer 13

your not a loser, I'm alone due to my problems and i just about managed to get a job with someone who is understanding of my issues but you said you cant get a job, how about try bike riding everyday or once in a while go window shopping, join a club that will help make new friends, sometimes when i feel down i try to write a poem and if you really want it to sound good you will take your time with it, you could take up a martial art because it helps your life in a lot of ways, go to the library and find books to read, maybe you could take up a college course, have some confidence in your self and stop thinking your a loser!!!!, the whole world is out there and its yours for the taking

email me if you wish to chat or need any advice at all

Answer 14

you need hobbies.  going out and doing things that are fun for you and can give you some kind of social interaction will help you a lot.  maybe a place like meetup.com or meetin.org can help you find people with similar interests.