I was good friends with a guy for ten years, we ended up having s*x. I thought that since we were so close and together all the time that it was a relationship but I questioned him about it and it turned out that he kept saying how his head was messed up from his ex gf and that he is confused about the way he feels about certain people. I gave it some time (4 months) and eventually, I found out from his best friend that he is trying to form a relationship with another of his close girls who is a friend but she doesnt want to be with him. His best friend told me that he is trying so hard to impress her and she doesnt want it and it will never happen. So I texted him that we should be just friends because I know that he is still trying to get with her. We didn't see each other for a month, he came to my job and picked me up we went to his house and he wanted to hook up. I left and later told him that I left bc Iwanted to hang out just as friends. So his friend invited me to the beach and they never called me and I found out that my x lied and didnt tell me that the girl he likes would be there. I found out from our mutual friend so I texted him and told him that he didnt have to lie to me about who he went with since I understand that wearejustfriendshe doesnthave to hide anything from me. I got no answer. I am trying to get things to be the way they were. I wont sleep with him because he messed up bigtime but I am still offering him the chance to be friends again without any drama. Why does he not call or want to hang out after I made this proposal? Why does he still try to cover up who he is with if we arent together? I told him I just want to be friends? isnt that what he wanted? I lost everyone in the group of friends and feel like I am on the outside looking in :(
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