I grew up never (ever) wanting biological children, but from a very young age had a real desire to adopt, specifically from Africa. This is still my dream and we do not plan on having biological children. Our desire to adopt from Africa is not based on a "trend" - like I said, this has been my life plan/dream.
That said, we are going to adopt internationally and are looking at both Lesotho and Kenya. My question is to those who have adopted children internationally. What are the long-term issues with this for the well-being of the child. Although I do a LOT of volunteer work on international development (I'm not trying to "save" a child), I'm afraid they may be angry that I've taken them from their birth country. I'm having issues with this and don't know what to think. How do I approach this in my head? I almost feel guilty and think instead I should be helping them prosper there instead of removing them.
I'm seriously conflicted. Any advice/experiences would be appreciated. Thanks!
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