Looking for a friend or more....?

Question

Ill be 25 on friday and i've been single for 3 months now..I have 2 kids 5 and 3 and i think thats what scares girls away...Im in the process of getting a divorce (she cheated on me with a girl)..Ever since then i havent been able to really talk to a girl...I want to start over and fresh.. I live in Erie,PA... if anyone wants to talk you can IM me..Aim-firsttymer55 or yahoo-joshuavanhooser . Im just looking for some friends or maybe more later on down the road...I miss talking to people, since all my friends moved away..So i dont really have any one around me...

Answer 1

Dear Firsttymer,

First of all, I think you need to spend some quality time with your children. Children can only blossom freely if they are exposed to the nature of love. Secondly, don't be afraid to be independent. You have a beautiful soul and you have many things to offer. Any woman would be lucky to be with a loving father of 2. You do not need to be with the people you love in person, they will forever be in your heart. People walk through your life and leave footprints. Some will leave larger footprints than others. As you go through the journey that is life and your future endeavors, remember to listen to your heart. I leave you with this motivational message as told by Rafiki, Oh yes, the past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it, or... learn from it.

Forever in your heart,

Rdy4axion