I'm 27 and engaged to a wonderful man who I love. We both have decided not to have children and he is looking for someone to perform a vasectomy. I want to have my tubes-tied or have the Essure implant put in for added protection. I have tried three doctors in my local area and all three have refused to do because we don't have any children. They want me to wait until I'm 35 and my boyfriend until he is 30, by then what is the point.
We really don't want children, we both have zero interest in them and like our lives the way it is. This is not a fly on the moment decision, it is something we both have spend a lot of time soul searching over. Plus I have some mental issues, I'm on pills to keep me stable but the only drugs that works for me may cause birth defects. Also my pills s***w up traditional birth control methods. I really don't want to worry about have children, and while I'm am pro-choice, I would like to avoid an abortion. Anyone who has had any luck finding a doctor in the states, preferably in the midwest would be helpful, thanks.
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