Looking for birth mother, Phyllis Druding 2/12/1984?

Question

I'm just doing this on a whim. I've been trying to locate my birth mother for years. Here is what I know. Just hoping someone will read and know something! I was born 2/12/1984 to Phyllis Ann Druding, in Pennsylvania Hospital, Philadelphia PA. She was 19 at the time. My father's name was Julio Alvarez. He is listed on paperwork but was not involved in the adoption at all. My parents adopted me when they were living in Cooperstown NY. My birth mother was going to name me Jessica. She wrote a letter to my parents saying she wanted pictures of me. I believe that a few months after I was adopted she made an attempt to stop the adoption but was unsuccessful. I am 24 now, married and pregnant with my second child. I just want to know something about her. If anyone knows anything please answer! No negative answers, please!!!

Answer 1

Here's some places to start your search -

First - add your details to the registries here

http://www.isrr.net/

http://registry.adoption.com/

Check for information on your state records here -

http://adopteerights.net/nulliusfilius/?...

Check here for search help - and links to search angels -

http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org/

And check here for any support - it's the best online forum for adoptees I've found -

http://www.adultadoptees.org/

All the very best with your search.

Answer 2

If you go to www.whitepages.com and look up Phyllis Swing (which is her married name according to People Finder) there are two listings, both have the same phone number.  I don't want to post them here.

The Phyllis Druding on Peoplefinder could possible NOT be your biological mom, but it may be.

Good luck!

Answer 3

maybe go to the hospital whre you were born, and ask them for information they can probably give you andress or phone number of your mother, i wish you he best of luck! =P

Answer 4

According to www.pipl.com, Phyllis Druding is 43 and lives in Philadelpia, PA.  You'd have to pay PeopleFinders or USSearch a few bucks to get more info.

But hey!  She's alive!  =)

Answer 5

Hey i found your mom... Can i get best answer?

http://www.peoplefinders.com/summary.asp...

Answer 6

I used these poeple before and they helped me:

Angelfire Investigations

Baton Rouge, LA You can look them up at www.yellowpages.com

Ask one of the investigators for help and that you want a background check on your mom and your dad (seperately) You don't have to tell them its your parent (if you dont want to). It cost like $65 per person -but it would be worth knowing some history. What they will do is find out who your mom may have been associated with at the time of birth and look into old records to see what records store your moms and your dads names. Good luck....

Answer 7

she is listed on peoplefinders with her new last name listed as well. This is personal information that should not be posted her.

she is listed also on whitepages.com using her married name.  I am happy to give you this info privately if you are unable to find it yourself.

Answer 8

Go to anywho.com and type in everything you know. Good luck, I'm sure she wants to hear from you !