My friend is married with children, with problems in his marriage. He recently started a friendship with an girlfriend, only as friends. They ended up re-connecting because of their jobs. She is not happy in her marriage and has children. He and his ex GF had not seen each other in 10 years, but for all those 10 years I know he was still in love with her.
As the relationship progressed, they realized that they were very much still in love. They hugged and kissed several times, but did not take it any further than that.
He now realizes that as time has passed, the reasons they broke up originally still exist, and that he in fact is NO LONGER in love with her.
He asked my advice on how to distance himself from her, without losing her as a friend. I had no advice to give, which is unusual for me.
Help me....help him. What do i tell him ?
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