Looks over personality?

Question

i know alot of people would say personality but be for real

looks or personatlity?

do you perfect someone hot and a complete a*****e

or someone your not physically attracted to but is really sweet?

Answer 1

i say don't settle.there IS  men out there who are hot-AND nice!

Answer 2

both

Answer 3

Personality. Make me laugh. I'll be happy.

Answer 4

Both.  Balance is the key to happiness in life.  Just remember that everyone defines personal beauty differently.  Real beauty shines from the inside out.

Answer 5

i do not ever belive someone when they say " personality " is all i look for in a women, thats a lie. all men are animals.

do you perfect someone hot and a complete a*****e ?

- yes, i dated someone like that before,

or someone your not physically attracted to but is really sweet?

- i dated someone i wasn't attractive to, but he was really sweet.

looks aren't always everything, but sometimes, it is, a little bit.

[edit] - i do think, that you can be with someone hot, and with a good personality. - my current boyfriend, who i find is very attractive has a good personality, it's almost our one year annniverary :)

Answer 6

There has to be a balance, seriously.  I can't date a completely hideous guy with a 'fantastic personality' because I won't be physically attracted to him, which is a real mood killer when I want to do the dead, ya dig?  And I don't want some guy that is absolutely gorgeous but is just a complete *sshole because I won't want to be around him.  Without balance, I will be alone forever.  Call me picky, but I don't think a decently cute guy with a nice personality is much to ask for.

Answer 7

looks and then personality. if i am not physically attracted to someone why have a relationship with them when i can just be their friend. But personality is important don't get me wrong. i guess they both have to come together.

Answer 8

u have to have looks but personality is first for me.

Answer 9

No, it has to be an even balance.  I mean, do you want to sleep with someone that you are not attracted to?  And just the opposite, do you want to be with an a$$hole?  Of course not... you have to have a balance of looks and personality.

Answer 10

Personality is important, however, there nearly always has to be an attraction for you to want to get to know him better.

In an attraction, i mean, he may look like any average guy, but he might be funny, or have a great body, he may be very smooth, and know just what to say to make your heart melt.

On the other hand if he looks like Brad Pitt, and treats you like you are an accessory, or the flavor of the week...........what would you do?

I .. for one would pick the average guy.  

        

Answer 11

Hmm...  I would prolly say personailty only because I can get him a make over! =]

Answer 12

I think there's a happy medium. If a guy is SUPER HOT and has the personality of a tree stump, there's no way I can be interested in him, but if he's hideous, then that's a no go too. I think an equal propotion on looks and personality is the best combo. Sense of humor is super important to me also.  

Answer 13

i think that a lot of ppl would really be attracted to someone really hot but if u kno the guy's a complete ****** but i think u just have to find the balance in what u want

Answer 14

Not really attracted to but really sweet because sometimes their personality can make up for their looks.

Answer 15

Can't I have both the good looks and good personality which i'm sure all girls have in a certain way?

Answer 16

h**l, I don't care what anyone else says, people try to be all fake an innocent and say personality, but if someone's ugly to them, they won't even give them a chance. Stupid society.

>_<

Answer 17

neither a*****e who looks good

or not attractive but sweet

i don't care if they are completely hot but looks count a little

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Answer 18

personality is more important, no matter how good looking someone is i couldn't have a relationship with them if they were a real a*s, or for that matter if there just wasn't a connection.

however there has to be a physical attraction as well, that might not mean really good looking, but if you don't feel anything physically for a person, then no matter how great there personality is, there's no reason to be more then great friends.

gorgeous is always a bonus, but nothing more.

Answer 19

There are people in school who my friends think are really, really hot. I agree, but I can't stand being around them. Then there are people who are ugly w/ good personalities and I would never expect them to be anything but a friend.

If you had a little of both yes. In the long term if you had average looks and a great personality I would consider it better.

Answer 20

i guess i prefer looks more, but i am 15. :o)

Answer 21

i honestly think its both, because your first impression of how attractive they are will always be in your mind. but overall, personality wins. because even a decently ugly person can seem cute if they have an amazing personality about them.

Answer 22

how about both?

one of the guys i liked was really hot, an a*****e to some people, but sweet to me

Answer 23

ok well

this is my general category:

good looks + BAD personality = just.. another person

bad looks + bad personality = stay away/ignore..

bad looks + good personality = good friends

good looks AND good personality = more than friends (hopefully) lol

may sound a bit shallow in some ways but that's the honest truth

Answer 24

personality over looks, unless the person is absolutely hideous.

Answer 25

If this is about a guy, looks are definetely more important than personality. If i dont like the way someone looks I dont take them seriously, none the less give him a chance. Find someone that isnt half bad that you have a good time with. How can you be with someone that youre not all that attracted to?