Losing Viginity Young? PLEASE ASNWER =D

Question

Hi there, My friend he has lost his viginity. And it happened at the age of 13. I am 14 and I think Like an adult and I personally think this is a bad choice.

Im looking for your opinion.

Do you think this was a poor choice?

Do you think he will regret it later on in life.

The right age to lose virginity.

And other personal opinions and details you would like to add.

Thanks.

10 Points for best answer =]

Answer 1

you wont regret it

Answer 2

Of course.

Because when he finds his soulmate someday, it won't be as special.

He'll be like "Dammit, I gave it to Beatrice!!"

LOL

d**n I wish there were more smart people like you out there.  

Answer 3

While I do think that thirteen is a little young to be having s*x I also think that he must have known the consequences of what he was doing while he was doing it. A poor choice? Most likely. Regrets? Again, most likely. When he meets the person that he wants to spend his life with he may feel that he would have rather have had that person to be his first, but then again that may not be a moral issue for him. And there is no right age to lose your virginity. It is not a scheduled event. When you meet the right person, and you fall in love with him or her and you feel so comfortable and so in love with that person, it's almost guaranteed to happen. s*x is a natural part of life, and when it's time for it, you'll know it.

Answer 4

I think it's best to wait. Some teenagers get carried away after mistaking liking a person for loving a person, then getting in over their heads by having s*x. Your friend may or may not regret it later in life.

Only you can decide the right age to have s*x.  

Answer 5

1.My opinion is that is not some thing that is taken away but in a sense given because afterwards u arent just having s*x, ur creating life.

2.Yes, it is cuz if the girl he did it with is pregnant then he's in trouble and he wont really regret it unless he wanted his first to be his wife.

3.There is no right age to lose it cuz it is a power and a privilege and should only be used when are married cuz u could die from infection of this and it only takes one time from one person.

Just to ask is this really a friend or is it acctually u who did this? I don't mean to offend u by asking u this but the "friend thing" has been used many times.By the way im 14 and also have a friend who lost their virginity.

Answer 6

Personally I think people are finding s*x way too common these days..

I think thats way to young.. its more enjoyable when your relaxed and comfortable like 18+ when your out of the parents house and a adult and know what u what and can handle the consiquences if they come about.

it was a poor choice, its something u can never get back obviously, good things take time. and finding the right person takes time and commitment.  

Answer 7

Do you think this was a poor choice?

>NO..bec. i think IS HE GAVE UP his virginity to the person heLOVE?!

and, it is more better to a guy to have a experience..

Do you think he will regret it later on in life?

>Definitely NO!! like what i said it is more better for him to have experience.. because rather in utmost consequences soul mate choosing the best in everything.. ***    

Answer 8

I don't think there is a perfect age to loose your virginity. But I do think that 13-14 is way too young.

In my opinion, it should be with someone that you care about a lot. You should be in a long term relationship with the person BEFORE you loose your virginity. Make sure that it is with someone that you really care for, and make sure that you both feel the same way.

Above all else. I would say that you should keep your virginity until you are ready to have a child because accidents happen all too often.

P.S. It is also very important to know your partners sexual history and to ALWAYS use protection to prevent getting sexually transmitted infections/diseases.

Answer 9

That was a good choice in my opinion.

Answer 10

You know you're old enough to lose your virginity when you fall in love.

Answer 11

life is meaningless so who cares.

oh and buttsecks?

Answer 12

Yes it was a poor choice

Mabye depending on the type of person he is

not the right age id say around 18

Was he really telling the truth?mabye hes just trying to show off,but he must be crazy to do it at such a young age

So yes i think it was wrong for him to have s*x at a young age i mean 13??

Answer 13

God! condoms break easily n always slip off! ******* is much safer

Answer 14

I think it is a decision that only the person can make.I lost my virginity at 11 I didnt do it cause it was cool I didnt do it caus every1 else was doing it I done it caus I was with a girl (a year older than me) we were having a moment 1 thing lead to another and we lost our virginities to each other was pretty funny actually the first time anyway I was ready and so was she so we found out anyway.We are still friends now and I am 22,hope this helps people make there choices on there own.

Answer 15

He's probably lying.  I had a friend who said he had s*x at 12.  He might be trying to get attention, did he tell you what the girl looked like or where he did it or what was her name?  Did he give you any other info besides "I had s*x,"

But if he really did lose it at 13... unless he got an STD or got the chick pregnant then he's fine.  But you should make sure he doesn't do it again cause next time he might not get so lucky.

Answer 16

I don't think there's any particular age when someone is ready to lose their virginity. It depends on the person and the situation that they're in. I, personally lost my virginity at a very young age. I'm also still dating that person several years later. So do I regret it? No not at all. That was the right choice for me. I think the biggest thing is that you can't allow yourself to get pressured into doing something that you're not ready for. When the time is right you'll know (wow i know that just sounded really corny) lol.

Answer 17

yeah cause he was still to young best age is probably 17+

Answer 18

If he feels that he is ready, and really believes that he is, he could be. It could end up with social problems with certain people, but I can't really tell that. Where I live (Canada) the age of Consent is about 14. It was really his choice...And if he has troubles later on in life, he can always get help from someone...:)

Answer 19

I think it was probably a poor choice, but I can't really know since I haven't even met the guy before. He may regret it later on in life, he may not. It depends on what he ends up valuing. Personally, I don't think there is a 'right age' to lose your virginity. Honestly, if none of us were supposed to be having s*x until we were in our twenties, why would we be physically able to at 12-14? That being said, the vast majority of 12 year olds aren't ready for s*x at all. I just think you should be in love and be prepared (worst case scenario) to have a kid with whoever. I'm not saying wait till you're married or could support a baby, but be mature enough to make the right decisions and not just run away.

Oh, and you should probably be old enough to know all about safe s*x practices, etc.

Answer 20

Im 17 and have not lost mine, i have had relationships and am fairly attractive, i dont have a hard time getting a girl friend, so obviously it has been my choice to keep my virginity, im not going to lie and tell you that I am going to wait until im married because im not.... I think if you have found someone who you truely love and you want to be part of them for ever then you should no matter what age you are.... but i do believe that at the age of 13 it is really young to know if you want to give yourself up to someone ells and i think it is best for people to wait at least until they are 16, i dont know if your friend is going to regret it or not because to me s*x is some thing really really important while maybe to your friend its more of a recreational activity..... hope i was able to help and i hope i am the best answer.... feel free to email me with any other question  

Answer 21

probably a poor choice, but his choice regardless.  i lost mine at 14 or 15 and have no regrets.  (i don't count when i was abused as a 5 y.o.)  

Answer 22

It's probably not the best choice cause 13 is very young, however, he was just curious, and I don't think he's gonna regret it as long as he didn't get anyone pregnant or got a disease.  I lost my virginity at age 16, and I'm proud of it, since I don't have a disease and never got pregnant  :)

Answer 23

what most people don't know is that the averge age kids are having there first sexual experinces at 7-9. its a shocker to most because it seems like at 7 s*x wasn't even in our minds.

I personaly still have the V card and Im about to turn 16 because i just haven't fallen in love.

if your comfurtable you should do what you feel like, as for your friend he must have had enuff confidence when he was 13 to give it try. weather it was a good idea or not is a good question. because chances are at 13 his relation ship wasn't that deap.

I would wait as long as you want just as long as your happy.

good luck and be safe