Losing my virginity...?

Question

I'm going to lose my virginity soon. I'm kind of nervous, but I love and trust the guy. Can you just tell me like, what to expect?

Thankyaaas.

Answer 1

After only a few months? And you're only 15? You're going to regret it. Don't be surprised if he dumps you after having s*x.

There's no reason for you to be having s*x with a guy you've been dating for only a few months when you're 15 years old. Yes, you can get an STD. Yes, you can get pregnant. With all the changes and stresses in your life, why make it worse by having s*x?

Answer 2

Honestly I think 15 is WAY too young to have s*x.  What is the rush?  You have your whole life to have s*x.  If you are going to have s*x no matter what anyone says though make sure you are in control of the situation. Go slow.  Take your time and make him know you want it to last.  Use a lot of foreplay and tell him what you want.  Use condoms and birth control!  Just using one isn't 100%, in fact using both isn't 100%.  Have you talked about this with you boyfriend?  If you're mature enough to have s*x, then you should be mature enough to have a conversation about it: like what happens if you do get pregnant, has he done it before, if he has did he use protection.  Just remember once you do it once you can't take it back.  Think about life in a few years.  What if you meet a different guy and fall in love (not just like a lot) and he's waited.  Consider the heartbreak of knowing some other guy has been where he's been waiting to go!  Please talk to your gynecologist and you mother before doing it.  Like I said before if you're old enough to do it, you're old enough to have a mature conversation about it!

Answer 3

it's not going to hurt as much as people are making it seem, you might bleed or you might not, it might hurt or it might not, it depends on how you are the only way you're going to know how it feels is when you do it.

people are right saying that it's not something you want to plan, you want it just to happen like a first kiss it's not planned and after you've gotten that first kiss you feel amazing.

i don't really care for the fact that you're 15 because i'm 16 and i was going to loose my virginity in grade 8. Yahoo users need to shut up about how young you are and need to realize it's about how much you care for the person and if you can trust him. If you love him then go for it because who knows if you're ever going to meet a person like him later on in life?

oh use a condom and some spermicidal lube(kills the sperm if they get out of the condom) just in case you never knowyou can get pregnant.

i'm 16, i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i love hiiimm soooo much and we've done everything, like i've been naked in his bed he's seen everything on me and we always talk about having s*x and that we're going to do it, but it never happens. cause s*x can't be planned, it has to be spontaneous. and just to find out if the guy isnt really using you tell him that you don't want to have s*x and if he tries to make you do it then you know hes an as*hole but if he says its ok or something then you know you can trust him.

**OH BTW it's not true the younger you are the more it's going to hurt thats just bull sh*t becaus your v****a stays the same size no matter what age you are so... yea don't worry bout that

Answer 4

Don't get your hopes up to high because it's not very good the first time.  It hurts a lot.  I hope you know him well enough to know that s*x isn't all he's after.  I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I always wished I would have waited.  It wasn't worth it.  If you are dead set on having s*x with this boy be sure to use a condom AND another form of birth control.  Catching an STD would be way worse than getting pregnant.

Answer 5

Just make sure that you are prepared for everything that comes with an intimate relationship. Don't have s*x because your boyfriend wants to.  

Answer 6

you're too young are you sure you want to do this? why not just wait a lil' longer? don't be in a rush... if you really wanna do this then make sure that you can handle the responsibilities once you get pregnant. otherwise just wait. as i said you're too young and there are lots of good things that will come to your life.

Answer 7

I disagree wit Melissa, it may not be so good if it just happens because you may not be prepared for using BC and protection from STD's I do think you may be rushing it at 15 but that is your decision. I would recommend that you go to a good web site and read about sexual innercourse before you do the deed.

Answer 8

I am not sure how old you are but this does make a difference.  THe younger you are, the more painful your first time is and the more bleeding you will have.  

I would like to say, if you are under 16 AND have been dating this guy for under 6 months to a year, do NOT even think about it.  

Secondly, You need two forms of birth control.  A condom AND you need to be on a form yourself, or you can get pregnant.   If you don't have two, then you can't have s*x , period, unless you are ready to have a baby.  

s*x is not something you just plan to have.  IT happens when two people are in love and take the relationship further.  You should be prepared way in advance and never just have spontaneous s*x without birthcontrol.

have fun.

Answer 9

use a condom. i really dont want to find you on here in a few months aking pregnancy questions.  

Answer 10

woah ... just be sure 100% ...

I lost my virginity on my honeymoon ... I was 24 and It was not at all what the movie or TV make it seem!! ... it was painful ... PAINFUL!!!! I cried sooo much and it took me 3 days to actually loose it (bleed)

My husband was soooo proud he took my virginity and made me feel sooo special .. even now he does that ... just make sure you are loosing it to someone who will appreciate it

remember some guys will treat you like a princess just to get it from you and then once you do they treat you like sh*t ... so be careful!!

Loosing your Virginity is not as great as you think ... you wont even orgasam ... at least not for a while ...

s*x isnt the same for a girl as it is for a man ...  

Answer 11

Make sure he wears a condom.

Get on Birth Control.

It's going to hurt.

Try to hold off.

Answer 12

Expect it to hurt.  

Protect yourself before you begin having s*x... that means condoms AND another form of birth control because condoms aren't reliable.

I don't want to see you on here in a month saying, "Can you get pregnant from precum?" or "I'm 14 and I think I'm pregnant, what do I do?".

If you think you're responsible enough to have s*x... be responsible for your health as well as your boyfriend's.

Answer 13

be sure that without a doubt he loves you and be as safe as possible. It can be a really good and enjoyable experience if you go about it right, but it can all go downhill if he doesnt truely love you. best wishes

Answer 14

PROTECT YOURSELF SINCE YOU HAVE YOUR MIND SET ON DOING IT.

CONDOMS, PILLS, AND I WOULD THINK A LITTLE LONGER ABOUT IT.

Answer 15

it hurts...but please make sure your in love with this guy and are u prepared just in case u ever got pregnant because that comes with s*x......

Answer 16

Omg you're an idiot.

Answer 17

Just have safe s*x and make sure you don't get pregnant.

Answer 18

It would help if you could separate out "I really trust him" from your sexual urges.  That doesn't justify having s*x and he is probably not in any position to support a family.  So what are you really saying when you say you trust him?

I'm not concerned about your losing your virginity or not, I'm just concerned about you fooling yourself into justifying your desires.

Sexual desires are strong at your age.  And they also will be the strongest at the time of the month that you are most likely to get pregnant.  Your body is doing its best to get you pregnant.  If you want a decent life you have to resist its attempts to fool you into getting pregnant.  Hard to do.

Talk to your mother about getting birth control pills now, before having s*x.  No sense in making things a nightmare.

Answer 19

Don't have s*x you'll get pregnant and die- Mean girls.

You're 15???

Talking about s*x now is insane.

If you have known him for a few months and you are already thinking of s*x than you need to slow down.

there is no reason to have s*x just to say hey i had s*x- that's ridiculous.

Aren't kids really in to being "different" or "original" now?

Try being different or original and keeping your legs closed!

Answer 20

have safe s*x and don't let anyone take advantage of you.

Answer 21

make sure you use protection and tons or lube to help reduce pain.

also check this site out to see if anything on here will help:

http://plannedparenthood.org

also make sure your 100% ready for this

i;m 18 a virgin and god d**n proud of it . i have a bf of 7 months

Answer 22

First time you do it, it really really hurts. When I lost my virginity it was ******* painful so I didn't really enjoy it that much. Good on you for losing it to a guy you love and trust though. :]

Answer 23

I'm not sure if this is the kind of thing you want to plan. It the kind of thing  where its better if "it just happens".

Just make sure you really want to do this and that this guy isnt just going to "hit it and quit it" unfortunatly this happens quite a bit.

Answer 24

i personally dont think u should have s*x. especially since u've only known the guy for a few months. if u really want to though, @ least use protection so u dont risk getting pregnant or an std. but thts j/ my opinion coming from a fellow teen