Losing myself. why...?

Question

I feel like this entire year, everythings going wrong.

Im scarying myself. theres just sooooo many things going on, and sometimes i feel like i can never keep up. i can never change, i can never correct anything in my life anymore.

give me a qoute, or pure advice, im losing myself bit by bit. i need hope. how come everything is happening THIS year. am i being tested by God?

give me advice or a powerful quote.

im in desperate help.

Answer 1

Read this very beautiful poem everyday.

http://www.fleurdelis.com/desiderata.htm

Good luck ; )

Answer 2

sound like your mind is worried about to many things at once: don't worry about yesterday it is over and is now in the past, you can't change it. Do not worry about tomorrow it is not here yet so there is nothing you can do about it, just worry about today it is now and you can get things done now. Live one day at a time, and do the best you can with that day, for it is the first day of the rest of your life.

Answer 3

...slow down, do a couple of deep breathing exercise...relax...

...now, the first thing you do is drop everything...

...have no expectations and don't tax yourself by doing things for other people...relax, slow down...

...lets do something for you...keep it simple and do it...there...stop everything else and relax ...

...do something else you want to do and do it...

...just keep doing things you like and can do until you get your confidence back and can say hello to the world...

...remember no expectations and do things for yourself...enjoy...

Answer 4

Be Positive about everything.

Dont loose Hope.

Love Thyself.

Enjoy!

Answer 5

Well, just don't forget that you're not alone.  It doesn't seem to matter what brilliant advice or wisdom I hear, I always have dark moments and I have always had to struggle through depression/dissociation/loneliness.  I have come to accept that life moves in cycles for me and I will always go through these terrible times when I feel lost, lacking motivation, uninspired...but I also know that I will always come out of it eventually.  Sometimes, simply realizing this is enough.

Change is inevitable.  All pain is temporary.

Answer 6

nobody is perfect. and that is normal.

give yourself some space for imperfection, for mistakes, then and there you will see that youre not too far behind.

Answer 7

Whenever I feel lost in the enormous, torrential sea of life that seems like it will never end, I think of one thing and it never fails to make me feel better.

You mentioned that you were being tested by God, and so I'm assuming you believe he's there. When I am upset, I remind myself that I am his daughter. If no one else in this world loves me, he does. God is MY father in heaven, and watches me every single day. He feels my pain, he weeps when I do, and he aches to have me back in his arms. He sent us here to Earth knowing it would be hard. But don't lose hope! Our trials are meant to make us stronger. God will never give us something he knows we can't handle. Be strong and show him that you can overcome the trial and be better because of it.

Always remember your worth. You were created for a reason, and put on this earth for a reason. Often I find that when I'm losing myself, if I give myself to someone else in service (I know it sounds seriously dumb) I find myself again. Even if its doing that silly thing at Christmas where you leave cookies on someone's front door or pick one day to just help other people no matter what, I always feel better.

Good luck and don't worry. You're worth more than you think you are.

Answer 8

"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it."

Henry Ford, 07/30/1863 - 04/07/1947

Founder of the Ford Motor Company

Answer 9

always remember this, if God gives you problems, he also gives you the strength to bear / handle that problem.

if you think, that only THIS year, things are not going well, be happy girl!.. few more months remaining!.. maybe next year will be the best year of your life!.

just dont give up. you are not the only one going through this.

well, try one thing. if you really want to feel good. just give a smile to someone. it will make you feel very very nice!.

either give food to a beggar.. or buy a toy for a kid etc etc!.. when you will see the smile on their face, it will make you feel really good!.  

Answer 10

That is exactly why..there is more than many things going on and you do not have to keep up neither with one or many of them.Slow down. All this things will successfully survive without your presence . Give yourself that which you lose bit by bit.

Answer 11

Its very simple.  Take a short break and do nothing.  Meditate and realise.  Now you know what is really going wrong.

God Says :

"DO YOUR DUTY, I WILL TAKE CARE OF THE RESULT"