Lost my libido, how do i get it back?

Question

I just dont feel like s*x, and have no idea why? Is it just the people I have been with of late that i dont find attractive? I have heard that it can be to do with your diet?

Answer 1

There are a lot of reasons why you don't feel like having s*x, medication, stress, depression among other things.  I wouldn't worry about it too much.  I go through spells where I don't want to do it either and then all of a sudden it's all I want to do.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

It is believed that zinc (found in pumpkin seeds) and spicy chilli peppers (in curries etc) boost your libido.

If you aren't attracted to somebody then pbviously you aren't going to desire them in a sexual way however if you are feeling uptight then a glass of champagne may relax you if you are at a fancy bar, similarly, if you treat yourself to new lingerie (especially if its a bit naughty) then you'll excite yourself and think more about (and want more) s*x.

Best of luck, chick, it will return in full force, I am sure.

Answer 4

Many life factors can cause lack of libido, sometimes it can be stress/hormones/depression/medication induced or due to illness, Have a chat with your GP if this is really becoming an issue, perhaps then the underlying problem can be look at, and look at whether there is a physical cause or a psychological cause.

For a women in particular, it could just be a case of you simply not being with the right partner...sometimes you may not even realise it.

Chris's immaturity/ stubbornness/ arrogance/ general attitude

has a big effect on my libido, I gotta say.