Love and religion goes together? My problem is that i love Muslim women, but i am christian?

Question

I love her very much, but i don't know she loves me or not. She afraid her parents, her parents knows me that also problem for her and i work on her brother company, and in other way she went to be with me. I don't know what can i do any one can help me regarding love and religion?

Answer 1

Religion is something that sometimes makes us free the devil we have inside us… unfortunately. All religions have the purpose to spend peace and convert us into better persons, but obviously the human being tends to think that his religion is the only true one and people with other religions are the ones who are wrong.

Religion is the main source or wars and conflicts, have even been and will ever be.

Although Jews, Christians and Muslims do have the same sources and call themselves “believers of the book”, everybody defends his religion with teeth and nails when somebody from another religion tries to interfere in his religious community.

Just see what happens when a Jewish man marries a non-Jewish woman, regarding the laws of his religion his children would never be Jewish, as only a Jewish mother can give the religious heritage to her children. So the only way to make sure the religious continuity of his religion would be able if the woman converts into Judaism first, which is not really accepted by orthodox communities.

Christians are also not very happy regarding inter-confessional weddings, as they are afraid to loose the next generation. Even in strictly conservative circles they are against weddings between Catholics and Protestants, although both groups are Christians.

Regarding Muslims, there is a big difference between Muslim men and women. A Muslim man is allowed to marry any woman “believer of the book”. That means he can easily marry a Christian or Jewish woman and his children will be automatically Muslims and he will be the head of the family and religious authority.

Women stand behind men and are considered psychologically weaker than men.

That´s why the Islam forbids that a Muslim woman marries a man out of her religion and if she does she would be punished, in many strict Muslim countries such a marriage would mean her official death sentence.

I do believe that the girl is afraid, because if her family finds out, they will not need any judge to dictate any sentence; they would simply take the law in their own hands.

For a Muslim woman it is strictly HARAM (forbidden) to marry any woman out of her religion and nobody in her Muslim society would accept anything like this. You would be in danger as well as the girl.

There are 2 solutions:

1: Move far away secretly with her. To another town where nobody knows you, as although her religion forbids such a marriage, Indian laws do allow it and you could get married in court without a problem.

2: Convert into Muslim. There won´t be any problems regarding this and you would be immediately accepted in the girls’ circle.

Due to my opinion it is the safest way.

Anyway, what means a religion? Believe in the good… and one religion is as good as any other one.

I think that there are many more important things than religion, and love has to stand over this.

Believe in god and lead a good life, which should be your religion – and love the girl and marry her and raise a family.

There is much more dignity in living a good life in the eyes of god than running to a Synagogue, Church or Mosque and doing nothing for anybody in real life.

No matter which is your religion in front of the people, it´s the heart that counts in front of god.

This is my suggestion. Convert into Muslim, marry her and be happy.

All the best!

Answer 2

most muslims are christian as far as I know so it's probably not the religion so much but more the nationality and the view they have about marrying into there culture. If you really do love her then prove to her family that it can work ..you might want to start by dating and slowing bringing the idea up to her family!! i think it's sweet!! :) you'll make cute babies!!