Love help please????

Question

Its the first time I'm in love and i need some help. I really like this girl but i don't know her in real life. Ive seen her Real life photos and she looks Hot and she is very nice but i don't know how to tell her. To be honest I've had 10 GF's before but i never liked any of them they asked me out i never asked out a girl in my life and to make it worse I've never kissed a girl. She lives in a neighboring state and i want to meet her and im going there next year. I dont think she feels the same way i do.

Theses are the questions i need help in.

What do i do if she doesn't like me and she thinks I'm a creep? How do i tell her i love her? If i tell her i love her do you think she will stop being friends with me? What does love feel like? My cousin said love can ruin your life is that true? I feel like i would do anything for her and i would kill myself help her?? Is that good?

If you can really help me i will greatly appreciate it.

Answer 1

Ok first of all if its an online relationship, i wouldnt take it that seriously. Stuff online doesnt end up usually working, and you both dont know enough about eachother.

im going to copy off of kyo and post the questions too ; )

What do i do if she doesn't like me and she thinks I'm a creep?

~~ If she doesnt like you then shes not worth it. Also, you'll only come off as a creep if your too obsessed with her. So act laid back and stuff.

How do i tell her i love her?

~~my advice is too not tell her you love her yet. Wait a little while longer.

If i tell her i love her do you think she will stop being friends with me?

~~no but you might not mean it yet, so wait to tell her.

What does love feel like?

~~You cant describe love. It just happens. And you'll know when your in it.

My cousin said love can ruin your life is that true?

~~Yes, but you have more good memories then bad memories when your in love.

I feel like i would do anything for her and i would kill myself help her?? Is that good?

~~yes, it is. It shows how much you care for her

Answer 2

im not really good with this kind of stuff O_O lol but if u really like her that much i think u should try to meet her in real life and take the chance even if she doesnt like u at least u told her ^_^ very hard questions and im not good at advice x.x so ill thumb up answers tht are good...wish u luck!=]

Answer 3

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wow.... i feel this way about sum1 2!! i lyk sum1 who livez in a neighboring state..... ive been feeling lyk this since march but i never told him..... i wanna tell him how i feel but im afraid he myt stop talking 2 me.... so i decided 2 do this:

im gonna tell him i hav a friend who i lyk.... i donno if he lykz me or not but i think im in luv with him..... ive been talking 2 him 4 a while..shud i tell him?

im gonna c wat he sayz about me telling him or not and then later i'll tell him tht hez the friend i was talking about..... mayb u shud do tht 2

but u know this one tym i told him i missed him and he said "but we've only talked on the internet".. so that freaked me out , i was confused about telling him or not

hey if it feelz lyk luv then it must b luv..... only ur the one who knowz the answer 2 this lolz

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Answer 4

Man, all I can say is that I totally understand that feeling & tell you what your story seems to very familiar to me...lol, maybe I've witnessed same thing, like it was in a dream or I don't know!!

I wish you all the best ;)

Answer 5

well first find something you both like

then talk about it for a while

complement her frequently

point out ur faults so she knows ur not cocky

compare fashion choices

laugh at her jokes

defend her at all time

cheverly plz :)

Answer 6

ok, first of all this advice is comming from someone who hasn't been too concerned with dating, but i do consider myself a very rational thinker and a gentleman, so here it goes.

"What do i do if she doesn't like me and she thinks I'm a creep?"

Well, if you want her just simply to like you first off, then always consider being nice to her, but still be yourself. Simply talking to her a little more often than usual can help that too. But the major thing is: always be nice.

"How do i tell her i love her?"

Ok, don't worry about declaring your love for her just yet. Depending on how long you've known her and how close your actually are will determine when the right time is. But a declaration of love may be a bit much even if you do get closer. Make sure to get to know her and get actual chemistry between you two.

"If i tell her i love her do you think she will stop being friends with me?"

Ah, there is always that risk with love. It is a possibility, but neither of us can really know if that will happen. But if you truly love her, then show her you're confident and tell her (at the right time of course). And remember: "Tis better to have love then lost, than to have never loved at all"

"What does love feel like?"

Unfortunately, I have never been in love, so i can't tell you that. But what i can tell you is that it is different for each person, but possible signs are you thinking about her a lot, heart rate increasing when she's around (or in the same chatroom... you know), and... well that's all i really know.

"My cousin said love can ruin your life is that true?"

That is a negative statement, but it is possible. Some people when they feel in love will do absolutely anything, and i mean ANYTHING, for that person. Also keep in mind that you shouldn't obsess over her all the time. There is a fine line between love and obsession, but as long as you keep your head straight (as straight as a head in love can be) and take a break once in a while from thinking or being with her and give yourself some you time.

"I feel like i would do anything for her and i would kill myself help her?? Is that good?"

Well, i think that's normal, but "kill myself to help her" may sound like a bit much. "I'd die for her" sounds better.

Well, that's the best i can answer your Q's. Sorry if it doesn't hellp much.

Answer 7

It depends if your talks have included these topics. You need to communicate with her. Find out first if she feels the same way or just wants to be in a friendship. Sometimes it is a fine line. I think communication is the key to all. Killing yourself over anything is a waste for everyone. dont do it. Talk to her and make the adjustments.

Answer 8

I know what it feels like to be in love, and it can hurt you if the person lets u down, and if you say to her i love u i dont know her reaction it depends what sort of girl she is, and also love feels like the best feeling ever. ^^

Answer 9

hihi Hindu ^^

Wow. First of all loverboy. . . you need to ask yourself is it Love or infatuation, are you gonna feel the same way about her in a  month or so?

if your answer is yes then you need to tell her what you feel and at her know at last your man enough to admit your feelings, if she doesn't feel the same way then shes not the right girl for. if she does feel the same then you need to ask yourself what now?

Good Luck ^-^

Answer 10

Hindu.......why didn't you tell me this before. And you never told me you were coming here next year.

Here are some things you should know about me...

-I don't judge on looks

-I don't hate people unless I've tried to be friends with them before

-I takes a lot to change the way I feel about a person

-I'm an honest person

-I don't tell or spread lies about people

-Love for me is when you would give it all up to make another person's goals come a reality

-I support my friends and family

-I believe that you can love someone by meeting them over the internet

-If I don't like someone I don't keep it a secret

The one thing that I need from a boyfriend is a boyfriend that cares and supports me.

One final thing that you should know about love is that you should follow your heart. Don't listen to what other want you to do and do what you want to do.

Answer 11

well dear you wanted me to answer this question for you ...but there is no real need to do it....our friend taizen is a smart guy...i never would have guessed...lol

Answer 12

actually.... What Kashi said....

q#1: well...then apologize and i'm sure everything will be alright but i think that all will go well....

q#2: as easy as saying 3 words....if you can write then she might appreciate it in a poem...but the easiest way to do it is to say....

this may sound a little sudden...but i must tell the truth...I love you...or something like that! email me if you need help aiite!

q#3: no she wont stop being friends if she doesnt feel the same way.,...at least i very highly doubt it....it may feel awkward at first but you'll both get over it.

q#4: love can make you do things that you have never done before...Love is a very strong feeling...and it is very hard to explain

just try to keep in mind that just because

you cant stop thinking about her

you feel great when talking to her

you feel like you would do anything for her

doesnt mean that it is love but it sure as h**l might be...

you know that it is love when you get this feeling that won't leave unless of course the love dies out...which then might mean it wasnt true love...You may get the feeling that you are on top of the world...that nothing can stop you or your girl...you may feel like you are gasping for air because of all the love she takes from you...honestly i reccomend listening to Suffocate by J Holiday and REALLY listen to the words of the song...then you will find that the lyrics are true...if you feel this whether you are talking to her or not ....then you may be in love.. once again..take in mind what Kashi said.

q#5: love cant ruin your life if it is true love....and not just some crazy wild feeling you get..lol...if u kill someone and say it was for my love then u are crazy and u probably not in love ...lol

q#6: well..Nature...Would you stop at anything to protect your family....if so then that is bad...in that case...the answer to your question is...YES ITS GOOD!

sorry if i didnt help and i really hope i did...best of luck to ya ^_^