Love is blind no matter what s*x?

Question

Please explain this to me because I truly don't get it. How can someone fall in love if the attraction isnt there with the other gender? Don't give me your souls intertwine bs...I'm all ears

Answer 1

Well I love my cat and we're not even the same species! ;)

Seriously, if you are talking about romantic love than I'm not sure I understand your question?

One definition of being bisexual is someone who can love someone of either s*x. There are plenty of people who are exactly that and to them it's the person not their s*x that they care about.

If you are monosexual then yes one s*x you are not going to be attracted to and I imagine falling in love would mean loving them but not wanting to be sexual with them.

And some people are mostly g*y or mostly straight but can make exceptions for someone they feel special about, but that's probably not a good idea for a romantic relationship.

Answer 2

Well, I have to say I don't agree with that quote. If you're not attracted to the features of one gender, you most likely will not fall in love with someone of that gender.

Answer 3

Love is blind because personality will always out-weigh appearances.

I use to be all about looks.  I didn't want my man to be too tall, too short, too thick, too thin, too dark, too pale...you get the idea.

I was very picky about who I dated.

After I realized that hot guys are *** holes, and ugly guys aren't any better, I thought, well maybe I shouldn't be so picky.

I've dated and have fallen in love with over-weight men.

And some are less than attractive.  It never mattered to me.

I loved them with a passion.

Looks are only good for the first impression.

People tend to follow the good looking people.

Love is blind, but it isn't sudden.

You have to know the person inside to love them.

and inside - looks don't account for anything.

Answer 4

yes it is. im bisexual lol and i fall for the person not the s*x. my exes were just great people. i loved their personalities...their good looks were a plus but i honestly fell for their personality, which is why we are still really really great friends.  they are still some of the most amazing people ive met in my life.

Answer 5

.....how can u fall in love with sumone if the attraction isnt there?

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if the attraction isnt there, its most likely because u luv that person as a friend and nuthing more.

"love is blind no matter wat s*x" is talkin abt how bisexuals see gender as a blind thing.

its not a impossible thing to understand....

if ppl are color-blind to race then y should ppl not be gender blind?

Answer 6

don't understand your question. you assume that love has something to do with two distinct genders? that would be a stereotype which prohibits understanding the phrase:

love doesn't matter which s*x (gender) you are and the other person is. you can be in love with anyone of any gender.

gender doesn't matter in love.

gender does not make love happen.

love is not gender specific.

Answer 7

It's a beautiful expression and I'd love to believe it but apparently it's not true.

Love can be blind sometimes but other times it isn't and (Love) can be lost due to looks, gender, race, etc.

Answer 8

I believe that's more of an emotional love than a sexual love. I've found myself in 'love' with someone's personality rather than them physically, however, I don't personally feel that's real love. To me, love is more of 'loving' them physically, emotionally, and in any other way you can love someone... That's why I say I've only loved twice, when I have emotionally loved many times, and physically/sexually loved many other times.

Answer 9

Yes.