Love or Money.........????

Question

Alrighty,

This is soooo Hard!

It's not really love or money as it is the possibility of an amazing loving relationship or a once in a lifetime experience.

I recently got hired to work onboard an amazing cruiseship for 6 months... and since then I have met an amazing man. He's fabulous in every single way, Every womans dream! Successful, Smart, s**y ! But anyways, He knows I'm leaving in about a month and at first he was saying don't go but now he's telling me that he'd really hate to be the reason that I stayed and missed this oppertunity....But things are new between us and I know that it's too much to ask for him to wait for me for six whole months. :( I just don't know what to do.

What would you choose.....A chance at an amazing relationship with an amazing man........OR.... Taking a shot at a dream you've had and work towards for years??

:S

Answer 1

d**n it, i know i'm bein cold, but i say take the job, do your best, enjoy, and let him wait. if he does, than at least you'll know he really is as amazing as he seems to you now.

if you stay cause of him, it will always ring somewhere in the back of your head that he stopped you from living your dreams and, maybe not knowingly, but you'll always hold it against him.

you'll still be able to call him and txt him while you're away. it will be difficult for both of you, but, you can do it.

that's just my oppinion, don't do it just cause i would and said so, or because anyone else did for that matter. do what you think is best.

good luck in life and love!

x*x

Answer 2

Take a shot at a amazing dream.....if he is meant to be then he will be there when you come back....You do not want to stay and start to hate him for it.  Ask him how does he feel about long distance relationship.....give it a try....follow your dream...your love life will follow..

Answer 3

You have to decide that yourself.

Having been in a similar situation and chosen love, I can tell you that sometimes it doesn't work out and you feel regret for the missed opportunity.

Either way, you will have a regret I suppose. So pick the choice that 10 years from now, you can look back and say, " I wish I could have done _____, but in the end, I am happy where I am and glad I made the choice I did."

That answer will be different for everyone.  

Answer 4

No offense but , men come and go .If you know your dream will come true  with going on this cruise ship.Then you said it your self. You worked so hard to get where you are . If it was meant for you and this guy to be together ,then he will be  available when you get back. Otherwise, You have to make that difficult choice yourself. See, you have to look at it this way.What if you were to stay (just because of him)and in a couple weeks or months it doesnt  work out.You will be dwelling on a chance that passed you by (which is a dream to you-the cruise ship).

As we get older and more mature , we have to make difficult choices to pursue  our happiness.Just make sure , you make the choice for you and no one els.

Good luck.

Answer 5

this sounds like a scene from the hills!!

but anyway take the job if he really likes you and wants to be with you he will wait and be there for you when oyu get done!!!!