Love prob..anyone help me?

Question

You see, I got here my best friend who is a boy, and I know his crush. I can’t tell him he’s my crush coz of: 1) i know his crush and he said he truly love her 2) he’s my best friend. and im really afraid to tell him he is my crush. every time when Vanessa (my classmate) went near him the two of them are so sweet and i’m like so embarrassed to face my crush, even though he’s my best friend. Vanessa is not a very good person, she’s mean and we hate her, she’s very O.A. and super super bigaon (whatever that means!!). im really looking for a way on how to tell my crush that i love him without using my mouth but using my actions. my actions should tell him that i love him a lot. im sooo deadly in love with him since i was in grade 4 until now. i can’t really take him off my head and every time i remember our sweet moments also, i wanna cry and i want those times be back. like, our classmates say, ur really a great match-up! also when he stare at me in a very different way, like he’s got something to tell me..pls..help me i don’t wanna post this question but then i can’t take him off my head..i want ur opinions..

please help me..what can i do so that he can see that im deadly in love with him without using my mouth (e.g. saying i luv you to him)

thanks, this is a serious problem and i want all to help me, thanks again! :)

Answer 1

For me, I’ll say I love you to him straightly. But if you’re too young, why not try to be friendly and close to him. Ask him if he wanna be your best friend. If he says yes, then that’s a start of something new about him and you. Stay in touch with him, you have a big chance for him in his life. If he felt that you love him, then that’s the time he’s gonna say he’s true feeling with you too. And then you say yes i love you too and you’ll be happy.

Anyway, I’m NOT trying to be the best answer because I’m allergic with those words. You can choose anyone else to be the best answer. But I’m just answering this to make you comfort :)

Sou Ka

Answer 2

how old are you?? lol.  just kidding

hmm....i had the same problem...but it was different, because it was one sided.  i was deathly afraid when he found out because i have never told any guy that i liked them.  he sat in front of me, so when he confronted me about it. i said that i did...he was sweet, and he thought about it.  he told me that he liked me but as a friend and that we can still be friends. i was young and was happy, but hurt.  

it was hard at first, and ever since then....i have not told any boys that i liked them....cuz i was afraid of rejection also.  

and i know that pain that you're goign through also...it sucks *** big time!! ugh...

so....if i were you...i'd have no idea also..ahaha. jk

it seems that you guys are real close, so ask yourself this first,

-is it goin to be awkard if we became a couple?

-do i like him like that, or friend?

-will it totally change our friendship?

-am i ready to tell him?

then go tell him..

okay?  

Answer 3

Sou K is totally right. Say I love you to him straightly. Your parents may know who he is if you won’t tell it to him straightly. It will make you feel heavy. Tell it to him now, and ease your pain. Luv ya sistah, now I know your secret. But I wn’t tell Mom anyway :)

Arnela Mae

Answer 4

life is Big.

you can play a gamble either you lose or either you win

first behave possessive to him so that you may learn how he will behave in love coz some persons are reallly difrnt

after that if you like his atittude tell him that you love him.

If yes its good

Otherwise you are losing him now too so you can find many persons more....but with patience....

its just a crush , may be you wana be laid side by side him...so just oversome it when you loose

Best of luck

Answer 5

if your dont want to ruin a friendship that has obviously lasted dont do anything too drastic if hes not interested.

if you must tell him, do it in a subtle, middle of other conversation kind of way