Love??????????????????

Question

what is love exactly cause I really want to see if I really love my bf and that I want to be with him the rest of my life. I'm still young so I want to know what real love really is thanks ^^

Answer 1

what is blue? the meaning with asking it is that its a typical answer to questions who dont have an answer, what you think is blue, is not the same i think is blue, or the next person over think is blue. If you ask someone what blue is then you will get 1000 answers...because we all assosiate the word with something different, love is the same way, hence -> what defines the feeling of love is different for everyone

whats important to realise that you cant live on love, and love alone is not enough to make a relationship work (70% divorse rate prove this)

what you should be asking is, ok so i got emotions and i think i can love this guy...but are we compatible enough that i can make a life with him?

- do you guys want kids? why or why not? when even? how many?

- do you like animals, which, do you want them, and how many?

- where and how do you want to live? countryside? city? etc

- religion? what do you belive, what do he belive, which affect does it have on you, which affect do you expect it to have on your kids, which effect do you expect it to have on resources like time and/or money?

- money? how do you think they should be spent and invested? which things are important and which are wasting money?

- marriage, how, when, what do you expect a marriage to entail? who do what, and pay for what? not just on the wedding day, but day to day?

- family, how do your family behave, which values do they have, will you be able to get along with them, or will they be a stress factor, and what do you define as stress factor from family, lastly how are you to deal with that if it happen?

- hobbies and interests, which do you have, why do you have them, how do they affect resources like time and money?

and thats just the very least you should be able to answer...if you love eachother, but find that you dont agree on anything then you will end up being misserable, it will cause resentment in both of you untill the resentment turn into hate.

Love is great, but love alone is not enough to base a marriage off.

Answer 2

well love is all different for all people... i mean for someone it maybe all showing all the love we have...other only wish for intellectual compatibility and so are feeling we feel.. so it is hard for one to decide whether you lovehim by us... and if you are young just give it time... it will by itself come to you...

Answer 3

Ask ur mind. Free up ur mind,close it and then take a decision. Before tht,start loving urself,ur family and all others. get a job,try to stand on ur own thats most important than beiing in a romance. Love urself first and think. Good Luck

by the way, I am single.my id is [e-mail]. Hope to chat with you. do send me an email

Answer 4

The asking of a question that has no answer. Some may say its a tingling on the top of your ears... but know one knows... by asking the question probably mean your not in love yet.