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Question

I've been in this relationship with this girl since 01/01/08. I told her that I love her and she told me she loves me back, we always tell each other that. Anyways I asked her if I could have her love forever and she said maybe because she doesn't know wats goin 2 happen in the future. I can respect that because she is entitled to how she feels. This crushed me tho because i love this girl very much, n I have told her dat she will have my love 4ever. I even stopped goin 2 college in a different country so I could spend more time with her (I KNOW, STUPID CHOICE, I'M AN IDIOT) but its all good since I'm goin into the marines. Anyways, its hurting me cuz she's unsure of the future, and in my opinion loving someone is more than saying you love them. It means you're sure of that person and so on. I told her this and she tried 2 assure me dat she still loves me. I hate myself and I'm regretting dat I ever even met this girl.

Answer 1

Go back to college- please! lol. You always ask people what their biggest mistake in life was and they always say it was that they gave up education for love. Dont make that same mistake.

Answer 2

Getting married is a big step for her so maybe it will take her long time to decides...

Wow you stopped going to collage just because of her, man this is a real love! if I were in her place I would say yes.

Answer 3

She loves you.....but no one knows whats goin to happen in the future...you just gotta enjoy right now.

Answer 4

Find yourself a beautiful caring women.. come back from the marines.. be successful.. grow a family.. go to McDonald's and find that ***** and rub it in her face!    

Answer 5

live for the moment bro.

Answer 6

you may be to pushy or in a way strangling her with your affection so she will back away, try backing off alittle stop telling her how you feel and see how where it goes from there

Answer 7

If she loves you know even in the future she is always going to have love for you no matter what even if she meets another guy. If she loves you, and you guys let go, then in the future when she comes back to you then you know fer shure it was meant to be!

Dont say you hate yourself&&you regret meetin her! You love her! Meeting her is gonna be a lesson in your life whether good or bad and you know it!

Good luck&&i hope the best works fer youu!

:D  

Answer 8

Marry a woman who loves you more than you love her...I'm not sure if uncle Benny got that from Langston Hughes or vice versa but it is the advise I intend to follow...

Answer 9

Hi Jay,

Real sorry you regret meeting her. But if she says she loves you why can't you believe her. No one knows what will happen in the future.Just be with her,take her out enjoy each others company My Friend.Don't walk away because you love her and she loves you.

Your Friend,

poppy1

Answer 10

sounds to me like shes scared, she loves you and knows your going away. women usually think that with men its *out of sight out of mind* , shes afraid that you may meet someone else or discover that your love isn't as strong as you thought.

Or she could could be thinking whats the point in making a commitment to you if your not always gonna be around, crazy i know but women think in deep and mysterious ways sometimes.

Just be happy with what you have at the moment and when you do go away she will miss you like crazy i guarantee.

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