Loving a western woman...?

Question

I am an asian male. I met a western girl at an airport during transit about a year ago. We talked for a while, exchanged emails and after a couple of months she came to visit me in my country. Before long we realised we are in love. Our relation is almost one year old and now she wants to take our relationship to the next level but I am skeptical. I love her but there are a lot of things that I am concerned about.

1) I am worried that relationship in the west are superficial. What I hear and read is that western women can leave you and go anytime for another man.

2) I hear a lot about western women cheating their partners

3)I hear that western women don't take care of their children.

I am sure that many of you guys will laugh at the above. My worries might have been created by the media and hollywood movies, but my worries are real. If somebody out there can clear these clouds infront of my eyes I will be so so so thankful..

Waiting for your replies..thanks

Answer 1

that depends on you! be the leader of your relationship, be the MAN

Answer 2

You should have, more or less, known her personality, her family value, the way she handle a relationship, the way she sees money, the way she expects from you, the way she cares about you, through the one year of interactions.  

I can't make judgment on western women of whom they live a different culture and different life value from asian cultures, but I would say it may give you some tough road to go through when you guys living together.

Don't trust the words " if you love her, you should trust her", sometimes, it is not about if you should trust her just because you love her, it is about reality if she is the right person to be your wife.  You have to evaluate her based on you interactions with her, especially when it come down to marriage, there are lot more things to be taken into consideration.  

If you are not confident about her, my suggestion is, try to live together first without getting into married, and certainly don't plan to have baby. In case she is not the same woman as what you have expected, you won't let one more person, your kid, to suffer for your mistake.

Good luck !

Answer 3

NO YOU ARE COMPLETLY RIGHT IM FROM LOS ANGELES CALIFORNIA AND ALL THESE STUCK UP BITCHS ARE THE SAME ALTHOE SOME DIFER MOST ARE THE SAME SO U HAVE RIGHT TO BE SCARED,  ALTHOE SHE MIGHT LOVE U THEY ALL HAVE HOLLYWOOD HOPES AND THINK THAT SOPE OPERAS AND MOVIES ARE REAL WHERE U FALL IN LOVE WHITH THE MILLINEAIR AND LIVE HAPPALY EVER AFTER BUT U DONT LIVE HARD AND U GOT MAKE SHOUR THATS SHES GO STICK TO U THROU THICK AND THIN NOMATER WHAT SO I HOPE U ARE ONE OF THE LUKY ONES AND KNOW REALYTY AND KNOW THAT U HAVE TO WORK TO HAVE A GOOD MARIGE AND IS WILLING TO SACRAFICE FOR YOU SO GOOD LUKE

Answer 4

AWW! dont worry! that is just tv, and yes that sometimes that does happen. I think if you truly loved her you wouldnt be worrying about that. and i really dont think you should be worrying about it. Yes, you might have problems about cultural differences, but you will get over that, if you tried.

remember all the stuff you are worrying about are just from tv and stuff like that.

good luck!

Answer 5

Hey, i'm technically half asian (chinese), but I was born and raised in Australia..

The questions you ask have different answers for different people. You can't group all Westerners together into one group.. I think though, that your views are mainly propagated by the media and hollywood movies. I know of many western couples who are faithful to each other (my parents are an example), most care for their children very well (me and my friends are products of this) and I know when if i was a relationship, I  would never take it lightly and cheat on my partner.

However there are people who are exceptions to the points I just made; but that's the same for any ethnicity. If you know, trust and love your girlfriend, you should be confident she will make a great wife. (If that's what you mean by next level?)

Good luck, I hope you can overcome your prejudices :)