Low blowing another chick?

Question

I'm having a huge moral dilemma here. There is this girl in my class who is always mean to people outside of her friend group. We are both 14. She dresses pretty skimpy and acts so gentle around guys but can be really abusive to girls who she doesn't know. I'm her biggest guy competition so she really hates me. I've tried being nice to her but all she's done is lie and be abusive. In a few days I finally want to stand up for myself, so infront of pretty much the whole school while wating for the bus I want to give her a sharp kick between the legs from behind, catching her by total suprise, with these flats I have with a hard-ish pointed toe.

However, I dont know if anyone deserves that or if that would be fair or appropriate. I dont care about teachers or trouble. she's given me enough and everyone knows it. That moment could show my dominance. Since most guys dont know it hurts they would stare in marvel :) but again, would you do that to someone you really hated?

Has this ever happened to you, either? Was it rewally painful?

Thanx so much. please respond!

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Answer 1

when retaliating in such a way it may make you look weak to girls and boys alike. Sometimes the way to grow and look like the better person is to question the other person why. Sometimes when you ask another person why they do something they are not even sure of the answer themselves. I think alot of people react out of jealousy

Answer 2

I don't know if you can ignore her and or if it will work You will get into trouble if you go through with your plan, perhaps make it more fair by making her turn around first.

No one picked on me in school because my brother and sister were well known to fight and win.  But once a girl did pick on me, I punched her but not hard.  Someone must have told her my families rep because I never had a problem with her again.

Answer 3

This course of action would make you look bad in front of everybody.

Nobody likes a person with a seemingly short fuse or a bad attitude. It can possible make you the bad guy in the situation with your rival getting all the attention and sympathy from your classmates.

If need be use clever words over sneak attacks (sneak attacks do not speak well for one's character, especially if all your adversary was guilty of were only a few crude words). Don't let her words get to you, does she have that much power over you, hopefully not, rise above the words.

Answer 4

I have been here before.  All it will do is make them think YOU are the mean one.  If she is sweet as sugar to the guys and they love her for it, it will make you look evil.  All you are doing is reducing yourself to her level.  What I would do is just simply set her up to be caught in the act of being mean.  Have some of your friends come by with some guys when she is throwing a fit at you.  Let them see her for what she is.

Answer 5

are you serious.  what a p*ussy.  you dont even have the courage to confront her to her face, and you arent smart enough to confront her using words instead of fists