Low self esteem how do i make it better

Question

my brother has been always calling me fat every since i was 8 (i was 60 pounds then) and he still called me fat now im 13 and he is still calling me fat (im 110 pounds and 5'6" ... lately he's been calling me giant and big foot and i dont know why but it always gets to me ... how do i raise my self esteem to make me feel more confidently. (hes about to go to college)

thanks for everyones suggestion

Answer 1

If you can just realise that he is doing this to wind you up it would help. Next, all you have to do is learn to mask how you feel inside about it. Don't let him see he can "rattle your cage". He will soon get feddup of doing it.

Before you know it, he will have stopped and you won't have a low self-esteem problem.

I do hope you can manage to do this very soon.

Best Wishes. UK

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Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel

find something that hurts him and make him feel like you feel right now and always remember HE IS NOT BETTER FROM YOU

Answer 3

hey. im like the same way.

my brother is always been like that to me.

i ignore him, and tell myself im not.

and honestly it still gets to me but i try to ignore it..

maybe this can help you.

hope this helps :D

Answer 4

What other people think of me is none of my business.  What I say to myself, is.

Answer 5

Think of some really good comebacks, andd the most important thing is just ignore it!...you are not fat. My little sister is 8 and she weighs 115 pounds, pore than me. You are actually underweight. Do not let him bother you, and just think about the fact that he is about to go to college, and you wont have to put up with him for much longer.  

Answer 6

im 15  and weigh 125. people tell me im skinny

when i was 13 i weighed 112

lol your not fat at all! seriously your not.

hes your brother. he does that just to annoy you.