Lpz help this is serious!?

Question

okay my mum is an alcoholic! i hate it i hate havin her go in public she screams and threatens me! i cry every night! she will be on my side then just turn and say if i tell my dad that she drank that she will never trust me! she call me a *****! it hurts and i scream at her occasionally and i hate doin it but i cant help it! I HATE MY MOM AND LOVE HER! i dont know how though! HELP i want her to get help and have her change! she has taken drunk classes and had 3 dui's help plz i am beggin u! plz i need some help and some 2 tlk to! I am only 11!~

Answer 1

DEFINATELY tell your dad

are your parents divorced?

Answer 2

You need to be away from that especially at that age you should tell your dad so she can get help she may say shell never trust you but once she gets better shell maybe try to make things right but the most  I can do for you is keep you in my prayers

Answer 3

ur only 11 and u should not have to deal with all of this   tell someone u trust   ur mom says she will never trust u again and at first she will be really mad   but when she is better u both will be happy so tell someone and soon

Answer 4

You need to get away from all that.  You love your mother, but she is not in a position to properly take care of you.  You could go to your school counsilor for help, you could try talking an adult family member (grandparent, aunt, uncle, cousin.....) or you could just call the police the next time she gets drunk and have them take you into protective custody.  They will force your mother to get help and put you somewhere safe.

Answer 5

I understand how you feel my friend's dad is an alcoholic.  The best thing that you can do for your mom is tell your dad even though you don't want to betray your mom.  In the end it will also be the best thing for her and she will thank you for saving her life.  My mom's boyfriend used to be an alcoholic and now that he is sober he is thankful for his friends and family that supported him and made him go to rehab.  Don't worry your not alone.  If you need any support you can e-mail me and I cantry and I will tr and help you as much as possible.  AA is a very good group and has helped many people but ntill she realizes that she has a problem the best thing for her is probably to go to a rehab center in which you stay overnight while people monitor you.  Good Luck and remember to stay strong like you have been.

Answer 6

I understand exactly how you feel. My mom has been a crack addict for years. I hated and loved her my whole 32 years of life. I tried everything from being mad at her, not speaking to her, threatening her to never speak to her again, and down to when I got older smoking it w/her. I paid off drug debts for her, let her use my car, but in the end honey you have to realize that you are enabling her to continue to behave this way. TELL YOUR FATHER. If she gets mad so what? Hasn't she already belittled you enough. And pray for her, because it's not her but what is attached to her, an addiction. Please don't live years of your precious life this way. If your dad doesn't take you seriously, find an adult, gparent,aunt,uncle, someone who will stand by you no matter how bad it gets and dive into this problem head held high. Your mom might get mad, but one day she will realize it's because you truly love her. You don't want to have to go to her funeral or visit her in jail because she killed someone drinking and driving. You sound like a very smart young lady. Do what you know you should and tell people so they can help her. Honey, you can't do it ONLY she can and has to want to. My prayers and love.

Answer 7

You need to tell your dad, so she will never trust you can you trust her? Not to mention if there have been that many dui's your dad has to know. Tell mfamily members that can help to get you out. I know you love your mom but she is killing herself and she is dragging you down with her. Find a way out.

Good Luck

Answer 8

Tell your dad...she is unaware of how much damage she is doing to herself and you. You might be able to get her enrolled in an involuntary treatment facility. You could also consider talking to a school counselor when you go back to school. They will help you to learn to personally deal with the issue as well as how to help your mother.

Answer 9

someone sounds like a troll.

Answer 10

You are only 11 and you can't deal with this problem by yourself. Just tell you dad about it even if it breaks her trust, because it will do good for both your mom and you.

Answer 11

hey i haven't been through this one but try talking to your school consoler or if it gets worse tell your dad...its for the better and if you need to talk go ahead and hit me up

Answer 12

well, you will have to tell your dad because my dad was a drinker and a drug user, and he always told me if i told my mom anything, he'll kill me. one day i told her and now he is very nice cuz he's off the alcohol and drugs. even though they're divorced. but for me, it took a lot of tries to get him off of it, but its worth it! and your mom is probably acting like this because of the alcohol.