Lucid dreaming about my pappaw who has passed away..?

Question

i have a site where i usually look up my dreams (dream moods) but i dont see much about people who have passed away. i am a lucid dreamer, meaning i can control my dreams (somewhat...i dont have it mastered lol). but this is what happens and if you can maybe explain that would be great! usually when i realize im dreaming, i can do what i tell myself to do. but my pappaw passed away without much warning about 3 months ago and i was extremely close to him. i have dreams about him all the time...ALL the time. usually its not that the dream revolves around him, but i will see him standing in the background of my dreams..like of to a distance or like last nights dream, i was at their house (him and my mammaw) and my husband and son was playing loud music. i told him to turn it down so he didnt wake my mammaw so i went to check if he woke her and peeped thru the door and my pappaw was standing next to their bed and then layed down beside her (but she didnt notice..like i said it was like he was dead and he looks younger...like when i was a kid, im now 26). but for some reason...i tell myself as soon as i see him that im dreaming cuz i know hes passed...but why dont i ever talk to him since i start to lucid dream? its like i dont even think to do that in my dream but yet i know im dreaming and i can do that in my other lucid dreams (tell myself to do things). i wake up and get soo mad and upset...how can i remember to talk to him when i see him in my dream? its like hes always observing but i just want to feel that with him again. if fellow lucid dreamers have any advice to help that would be great!!! soooo great! also...ive recently gotten better at lucid dreaming since ive been pregnant...im 7 1/2 months do you think this will go away once i have the baby or keep this gift? (yes my pappaw died not long after i found out i was prego with his second great grandbaby... sadly) thanks in advace

Answer 1

people usually dream about those who were close to them who passed away, up to 6 months after the death. especially if you haven't had "closure". my grandma died 7 months ago & i never dreamed about her. we weren't close.

Answer 2

Firstly: There is this thing about lucid dreaming. You can never explain a lucid dream because you control what is going on. You are messing with context and content so.... it is even more unclear than a regular dream.

Dreaming about dead people who appear only as a ghost, back ground figure,  is just that. It may be either a ghost or they are still very much alive in the back of your head.

You can not (should not) connect to the dead in lucid dreams. Usually they keep distant for good reason and saying goodbye (or wave) is as close as they should get. If they need to contact you they will.

About having a baby: Usually the focus will shift to your baby 100%. You will only dream about sleeping and even when you actually sleep you will have one eye open to watch the baby. Don't expect to dream any lucid dreams for a few years. It will return though.. if you get around to it again.

Answer 3

One interpretation:

Your lucid dreaming is at the level of a kind of cocooning.  A step up in lucid awareness is telepathic encounters with helper Beings.

Some of this kind is described in "Testimony of Light," Helen Greaves,

"The Great Divorce," C. S. Lewis,

"The Masters and Their Retreats," Mark Prophet,

"Watch Your Dreams," Ann Ree Colton,

"The Master of Lucid Dreams," Dr. Olga Kharitidi.

Sincere intention to receive God's protection, healing, and instruction, before you go to bed at night, also helps.