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Lunch means asking out?

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If I ask my classmate to have lunch with me in the break would she interpret that offer as 'would you be my gf?". One more thing I should add is that I'm going to ask her for lunch one day in advance since me and her don't end our classes at the same time. Since I'm asking for a lunch in advance, does that indicate excessive interest from my part?

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  1. No, it just means you like her and want to spend a little time with her. I think you're overthinking this. I wouldn't interpret it the same way if a girl asked me to lunch, though. I would think it a little flirty, but just go to lunch and see how we got along.


  2. If you are asking her to go to lunch then I would not interpret that as you asking her to be your girlfriend.  If you were asking her to dinner and a movie, then that means you want to get to know her better and it's a date.  I would not think it's "excessive" interest, you are just telling her by having lunch that you'd like to spend time with her and talk.  Many women like this type of "date" because if things are not going well for the two of you, either of you can say you have plans in an hour and call it early.  It's harder to get away at night when you're on an official "date".

  3. if your a guy asking a girl id say yup! unless you specify that its not!

  4. ok depends how u wanna ask her for the lunch, if u don't want her to think ur asking her out then u gotta say i would want u to have lunch with me since ur my FRIEND

  5. Just asking a classmate to lunch does not indicate asking them out in terms of GF & BF. But asking in advance shows that you are interested in more than just friendship...Are you???

  6. Asking someone for lunch does not say anything more than you would like to have lunch and get to know them.  It doesn't mean you will have a life together.  And it's always better to ask in advance so that the person can make the time rather than asking last minute.  It has nothing to do with "excessive" interest although I'm not sure what you mean by that.  It's a courtesy.

  7. no....but she may think it's a date.  Doesn't mean you'd be bf/gf though, just hanging out for lunch.  Also, I wouldn't plan it too long ahead of time or she might think you're really interested in her.  Just ask her the day before or two days max.  Say, hey, wanna grab some lunch on wednesday (or whatever?)

  8. Why are you so worried. Just ask and dont care how she reads into it.

  9. no.

    im a girl, if someone asked me out for lunch, its lunchh,

    not a commitment :]

  10. no, that kinda means taht ur friends but its like a date, not rele going out.

  11. no lunch means lunch to a girl. you need to be more specific with her

  12. nah it wouldn't be like that

  13. no, no, and no.

    A simple, "want to have lunch tomorrow?" will be perfect, and doesn't mean "be my girlfriend".
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