Lying about message is he cheating?

Question

i have been with my fiance for 2 years and we now have a baby together the only problem is he got a text through and told me it was from his friend letting him now when he would be on-line but i seen the message and it was from some one he has under don't know saying hey hun you ok, you must have my old number.

he tells me he loves me very much and is very happy with our life and would never cheat on me he also says if he didn't love me he would have left by now. what should i do?

Answer 1

Even if he isn't cheating, he is lying to you. Which for me, is just as bad. You need to confront him about this, its not fair that he has got a child with you yet he is still lying. Hope you sort things with him x

Answer 2

"hey hun you ok, you must have my old number"

my initial impression is that this is a female, and that the fact that an older number was mentioned kind points to maybe your fiance knowing them for a while..

if you trust him, but this has been really bothering you, your best bet is to find a key-logging program online, this is a program which you can buy and it runs secretly on your computer, it records everysingle keystroke that is typed on your computer's keyboard..

obviously the main concern is that he does not find out that you did this, because he will feel completely betrayed..

but if you've been hurt in the past, or you've been cheated on... its worth the risk... (talking worse-case scenario here) .. its better to find out now than a year down the road when he possibly leaves you for another woman..

according to the latest cheating survey that i read last week... on average close to 2/3's of people will once in their lifetime cheat on their partner.. so it isn't unlikely....

find out for sure.... i went and found the website for you http://www.keyloggingsoftware.com/

there are a couple different programs... just make sure you install it when he isn't there!!

hope this helps... feel free to email me with any questions :D

Answer 3

I don't think he is cheating.Some people just like to talk to other peopleonline.If he starts staying out late or don't want to have s*x with you,that's when you worry.

Answer 4

Its a difficult one because the text itself doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating but the fact he lied about it to me is the real issue. Why lie about it? It makes you instantly suspicious like he has something to hide. However, it is one text message and I don't think it is any reason not to trust him or accuse him of cheating. If I were you, I'd believe what he says that he loves you and is very happy and wouldn't be with you if he didn't want to be - but I would keep my eye on him.