M mom is starting to figure out i am having s*x.but i don't really wanna tell her just yet

Question

and it is mainly because i had unprotected s*x 6 times and i don't need her worrying .its scares me even more that she might find my pregnancy test.she is aware i have a boyfriend i have been with him for 4 yrs i am 16 . so yea we started dating when i was 12 .when we have s*x its with so much passion and love .my question is when is a right time to tell my mom?

Answer 1

If the two of you have been together for 4 years, your mom probably wonders about it already. You really need to talk to her. Believe me. I 'm a mom and I would want to know. It is important that you use protection.  You may feel ready for a life together but 16 is really young to take on the responsibilities of parenting.  You can always start a family later. If you are sure you are not pregnant, maybe you could tell a little white lie and tell her that you are considering having s*x and you would like to get on birth control. At the very least go to planned parenthood yourself to get protection.

Answer 2

Stop having s*x because you are not responsible and it is obvious that you can become pregnant and I would hate to see a child suffer because you couldn't use condoms and pills. Grow up.

Answer 3

well i mean it must be obvious to her if its been 4 years (congrats :))

but i honestly think you should tell her now so that she can get you on birth control which would make things a lot easier. you should be able to talk to your mother about this stuff. better than a baby right

Answer 4

Though you have been enjoing dating/s*x for 4 years starting when you were just 12, it is high time that you tell your mom everything.

Answer 5

When you started having s*x with your bf, that would have been the best time hun. Your mother isn't stupid, she knows that you're having s*x. You need to give your mother a little bit more credit & respect than you actually do, she hasn't got a fyffes sticker on her back ( she didn't just sail into town on the last banana boat ! )

Your mother is probably waiting for you to admit to her that you are doing what she knows d**n well you are doing.

As for the unprotected s*x part, you really fancy having a baby, or worse still catching an std ? How do you know your bf hasn't got any std's ? Because he's told you ?

You are playing an extremely dangerous game hun, you might think everything will be fine, but sometimes, life has a funny way of going wrong. You reap what you sow : you have unprotected s*x, you get pregnant, you've already had one pregnancy scare, how many more near misses will it take for you to wise up & use protection ?

Good Luck. I think if you carry on with your life style, you're gonna need all the luck you can get & then some ! X :-)  

Answer 6

woot s*x!!

my mom figured out i was having s*x

im 14 i just never mention it

i did it with a 16yro

Answer 7

well I am a teenager like you and it is hard for me to tell things like this to my parents too. At first when i started having s*x, i thought it didn't matter and i just kept it a secret. But its so importantnt to tell your parents about these things because it can get you into a lot of trouble and don't worry, they had to have s*x to have you so there is nothing to be ashamed of. but your question is WHEN should you tell them? well i suggestthat you can tell them anytime your ready, because this is the right time! You should go to their room or go somewhere private where none of your brothers and sisters can go in and tell them that your having s*x so they should be prepared.                                                                                          

good luck! and take your time!

        

Answer 8

I think the right time is about right now. Wake her up if you have to.

Do you really want to go through that experience without her (depends on your mom I guess)? Well, I would tell her now. Because your mother has been there, seen it and moved on. She IS a mother, so she knows all about the scary part of thinking "pregnant", right? And she loves you, right? So, go tell her.