M unable 2 express or a lil immature??

Question

I am 17 yrs of age!

itz not that i dont understand things...not even that i behave stupidly...its just that i am a very naughty...fun loving kind of a girl...have always been pampered at home....got loads of love and affection...never seen much trauma in life....

but even if small fights with friends creep up...or some small probvlems here and there...m not able to express myself....my behaviour seems to be a lil kiddish...i cant put things across as a grown up would do!

take for instance....

my boyfriends grandfather passed away....i really dint know how to handle the situation....dint know what to say that would make him feel better...i wanted him to recover...but i failed in putting things across....he said 'thats y i say u r a child'

i hurted him.....when he required support from me...i really felt guilty....

donno...whats happening with me...

i reallly wanna change it!!!how!!??

Answer 1

Yes you sound very spoiled and immature, but don't worry. Life is full of ups and downs, one day you will be forced to grow up. Sometimes we don't understand because we havent experienced. Try reading a good book on these subjects.

Answer 2

Dear friend,

I could get your position by reading the contents given by you. Now, if you want to mature, you have to curtain the quantum of your talking. When one keep of talking, one talk very stupid things, unintentionally.

So, keep hold on your tongue and think before you speak. Giving pause will not harm you. The harming thing is not reacting instantly to the situation taking place in front of you. By keeping a hold on your toungue will make you balanced in talking & mature. If you try it out, you can see the results yourself and feel the difference.