MAJOR friend problem! Please ANSWER!!?

Question

I was sleeping at my friends house about 2 weeks ago,And i left at 1AM because i didn't feel to well. What i didn't realize is that i left my phone charger there, and now my phone is completely dead. I've been calling her since the day i left it there,And she wouldn't pick up. My mom told me to call her today, And i tried now and thankfully she picked up and now she said " well. i'm going to my grandpas' house, i'll give it to you tommorow." I need it TODAY! I'm going to the mall with my friends and my mom wants to know when to pick us up and none of my friends have a cellphone but me. And she said she'll give it to me tommorow when we have our final. Oh well! She's being a REAL B**** RIGHT NOW, I'M VERY PISSED.I paid for it myself, and i want it right now!! Why not on the way to where ever she's going, she can't drop it off?? What should i do?

I'M REALLY PISSED!!

Answer 1

you left it there so its your responsibility to go get it. its not her job to drop it off to you and she cant rearrange her plans to see her grandpa because of you. Why cant you offer to go get it?

Answer 2

They have pay phones at the mall, bring some change and do what everyone else used to do for years before cell phones - use the pay phone to call your mom.

Or figure out ahead of time when you would like to be picked up from the mall.

It's not that difficult to live without a cell phone, especially for one day.

Answer 3

This is something that is out of your control.

Take some extra money with you to the mall so that you can use the pay phone to call home.

Or pick a certain time to be picked up.. and make sure you take a watch to keep track.

Easy solution.

Next time just be absolutely sure you don't leave anything behind.

No need or reason to be so upset.. its just a small set back... not the end of the world.

Take a deep breath... and breathe... you are ok.

Answer 4

Have your mom go by & pick it up.

Answer 5

can't she bring it to you on the way to her grandpa's house

?

Answer 6

Relax, people have lived for thousands of years without cell phones. You can go a day without it.

Answer 7

Ask your mom to drive you over there and let your mom go with you to the door and ask her mom for the charger.  I am sure the presence of your mom will help your friend to stop acting like this.  I would be worried taht she broke it or something since she is acting so aloof.

Answer 8

why should she be inconvineced for you mistake.

you forgot your charger,

why not go pick it up?

if you need it that bad and it is upsetting you that she won't taxi it over to you, why not get yourself to her house and pick it up?

relax a phone charger is not the end of the world, most malls still have pay phones, at worst you could ste a time before hand and where to meet your ride home, instead of calling hey i am ready to go home now, say okay how about 5pm in front of macy's, then at that time go to the pre designated meeting point and i bet your ride will be smart enough that a time and place will be all the info they need, to get you when you desire.

honestly if you feel she should bring it to you then you will have to wait until she can.

otherwise own up to your responsibility for your things and pick it up.

your friend is busy too, she has a life outside of you, just as you have one outside of her, if you have the time to get angry then you have the time to cart yourself over there and get it on your own.

Answer 9

Tell her how you feel and tell her to put in outside her house in a bag or somethin and pick it up!

Answer 10

Yeah, she's being a real b*tch because YOU left YOUR thing at her house when she invited you over. Boo f*ckin' hoo. Tough it out for a day, you can deal with it.

Answer 11

just have your mom pop over there or pop you over there and get it. i wouldnt even call first just go and she will probably be there if not then you will just have to wait. if your mom needs to know what time to pick you up then set a time before you get out of the car and meet her where she dropped you off. its not that big of a deal just calm down you will be fine.

Answer 12

Go by her house and pick it up, but leave her a note telling her that you all really need to talk.  If you all are going to be friends you are going to have to talk about it and clear the air