MEN! Is a 40 y/o really as sexual as 20 y/o?

Question

i know everyone's different, but in general are most men in their 40's content with less s*x?

example: my ex is in his late 20's and we'd go for like 5 rounds at a time at least 3 times a week. my other ex is in his early 40's and could hardly finish the first round and that was only once a week if i was lucky. we couldn't even have s*x the day after because he needed a week to 'reload'!

so, is s*x not really a priority as you get older?

Answer 1

it depends on the man..I am 40 and I spent 6 hours in bed with my lady on saturday..I went 4 times..and I am even a fat slob..just think if I were in shape..she wouldn't be able to walk..I am not kidding either..I love s*x..I abuse my self many times a day..when I am home alone..she tells me she wants it more as she get older..she is 40 as well..lucky me..enjoy you love machine..I like older women..no need for condoms..those things suck..and they know how to please a man..expericence is the best...your hot as well..

Answer 2

you'd be surprise to learn that many 20 year old are not as active as 40 yr olds and viceversa, Did you ever ask your 40 yr old if he had some underline medical condition that kept him from performing maybe as much as he would like to ?,he could've easily have some sort of medical condition , and might've kept hidden from you. There are just so many variableas to why someone of certain age would or would not do some things ,so next time when in doubt just ask the question.

Answer 3

Yes; s*x is a priority in most men's lives ...

The problem is trying to find a lady who is loving and compassionate enough to understand and support us as we do age and get less sexually active .

As we age , the erections will get less firm .. our ability to go several times in one night may diminish , and we have to wait a day or two to recharge ....

The sign of a GREAT Lover , is one who is willing to be right there with the love and support that will get us recharged .

Answer 4

how old are you???????????

Answer 5

Every man is different but generally speaking it does take a bit longer for us to reload so to speak. My personal self I have not really slowed down due to a minor birth defect that keeps the rod hard for hours but my time between has lengthed from next day to every 2 days and I am now 48.

Answer 6

It really depends on the guy's fitness level.  Your 20-year old sounds like he was in great shape and able to go for the night if need be.  The other guy was definitely not in great shape - physically, sexually, the whole works.  No question but that your s*x drive drops as you get older but at 40, he should be able to last for a few romps and be recharged within hours.  If you were still with him, I'd say get him to go see a doctor and probably hit the gym as well.

Answer 7

That is definitely an individual thing. However, I would assume that most people do lose their s*x drive over time.

Answer 8

some are and some are not but the experience each bring depends on the skills each has or has learned--of these two which one made you feel loved and wanted not just a girl to have s*x with--a release of sexual tension.  .  

Answer 9

The AMOUNT of s*x can take a SERIOUS drop off after 35 for men, but for women it doesn't really drop off until they're about 40.

However, a man of 35 should have learned a few things in the previous years, so the QUALITY of s*x increases!  It usually take the man longer to reach climax, and that is usually just great for the woman!

If the man is a real man, he'll learn some techniques that don't require his ability to "reload", and he can satisfy his woman in other ways.  I mean, he's got fingers, don't he???

Typically, a man doesn't really learn to "make love" until after he is 35.  Before that it is just s*x, animal ruttin'

Answer 10

In your 20s the other person could just be breathing. I remember.

40s? That is when you are young enough to go to it and have the experience to make some serious stuff happen. But with that being older entails some interest, a bit of lead up, really wanting you as a person, taking a trip and doing something different, not being hounded about this........ etc. It takes two to tango.

I would bet that both ex's just found you boring as all get go.

Answer 11

Your "older ex" may have had some condition(s) that affected his libido. As men age the amount of testosterone produced decreases, this can have a direct effect on one's desire for s*x. He may have had other health concerns that affect his ability to perform as well, such as years of smoking, high/low blood pressure, hardening of the arteries, and prostrate problems among others.

Answer 12

no, it all depends on the individual and his drive.

Answer 13

Baybee, I wish I could relive my 20's and 30's and especially with the knowledge that I have now in my 40's.  There are some HEALTHIER 40 year olds healthier than some 20's & 30's.  It's diet.  We eat all this blood vessel clogging food.  This prevents blood to flow causing E.D.

Answer 14

i'm 31 and me and my ex got it on 3-5 times everyday.

Answer 15

Labido depends on the person not the age of the individual.